Bad Boyfriend....
By missvaeta03
@missvaeta03 (50)
United States
April 10, 2009 1:08pm CST
I wish my boyfriend wouldn't treat me like crap...yeah I no what your thinking ... if he treats you like crap then you shouldn't be with him. Sometimes its not that easy to let go of someone you care about. Well my boyfriend is going thru alot in his life (I mean alot)and you know how sometimes people take out their frustration on others (the ones that care about them the most) I kinda think thats whats going on. I wish I had or knew a magic word that could fix everything but I don't....Thanks for reading just had to get off my chest.
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4 responses
@albert2412 (1782)
• United States
10 Apr 09
I am sorry that your boyfriend is not being nice to you. Why not take him somewhere that is not streeful and just relax with him and tell him that you love him and that he has been hurting your feelings? Maybe there are streeful things going on with his boss or family and he just does not realize how much he has been taking out his stree upon you? Talk to him and try to get him to act better towards you.
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@dmrone (746)
• United States
12 Apr 09
If someone really cares for you then they will not treat you like crap, no matter what they are going through in other aspects of their life. If the person you care about treats you like crap and you let them it will only get worse over time, it does not get better. If they cannot handle what is going on in their life, without treating you like crap, then they will not be able to handle other stresses that may come their way if you stay with them.
@imaginearea (363)
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11 Apr 09
You should not let ANYONE treat you like crap no matter how much you care for them. The bottom line is you really must learn to care about yourself more...this is the secret to stopping him from treating you like crap.
It is impossible to force another person to do what they are not willing to to. You cannot change him, you can only change yourself.
Good luck and I hope you develop the insight to see that you are worthy of someone who treats you with love and respect.
@classicelfryoko (109)
• United States
10 Apr 09
if that is the situation all I can say is try to be supportive. When he gets angry think of things that will make him laugh.(anything) Or if need be don't argue, but just hug him and hold him close and kiss him. We as people will cry out for these things when we are fragile. just a tip.. hope you find something that helps.
