I'm think I need to start over on my friends

Hi ChaJudLeoBit...glad to see you here again and was wondering what happened to you and hope you've been all right. I just asked you as a friend again as you were on my list so please accept me again, okay?

I got this, so I guess you didn't delete me....

I usually go with the ones that have blank pages. That means that they are no longer here, or they have been banished for some reason, or they have just joined and did not know they had to participate. If they still have the profile page, they are still here. It's the ones with the blank page that will have to go. I am still here by the way, so after you finished deleting, put me back on.

I haven't seen you on mylot for a while. I too have several friends on my list that have not been around lately. Some of them I think it is because of health reasons, so I leave them on my list. But eventually I get around to deleting the ones that have been gone so long I don't remember the last time they posted, or even responded to my own discussions.

NO! Don't delete me! I'm still here and would love to have your discussions sent to me! If you delete me I can't do that! I was gone for about 4-5 months, and I wondered the same thing. I contemplated that too when I came back, but when I went and looked,somehow my absence had caused all my notifications to be turned off! I went back and turned them back on, so now I'm getting e-mails again. A good suggestion is what I'm slowely doing, one or two at a time. Go in and see when the last time they logged in was. If it's been over two years, I'm deleting them from my friends. If it's been 6 months-2 years, I'm sending them a short e-mail that says Where are you, are you still at mylot.