Well... here's another question to you guysXD
By josephb
@josephb (219)
Malta
April 11, 2009 2:49pm CST
well hey! everytime I have a question in my mind I always ask you the my lotters! Well this one is kinda confusing but you always had the answer for it and might have an answer for this one aswell ;) well I had a previous discussion ,( http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1970213.aspx# )well In short I asked you about what to do to ask my best friend to be more then just best friends(by the way the age is 16 for both of us) Now I went camping for like 5 days and I got to know better some people, well and the confusing part is this I just like like another girl :S XD which is like funny and confusing, this is strange though I think I like like more the girl at the camping then my best friend (which is a girl also) when this girl of the camping had something that's not right I just got it when no one did and I was really worried and stuff, but to get to her is really , really , really difficult. I mean I don't know if she's single or not. I don't even have her number or something to connect with her , then. Well the big question is who to choose and greater then that how to choose and what do I look for?
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8 responses
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
12 Apr 09
Now, I came to know that you are only sixteen. In the discussion which you were asking information about our reaction, I thought that you are 20+.
But now my suggesion is to take care of your studies. This is the golden time of your life. Life gets a shape in teen age. If you look for only love and girl you will never get success in life.
My suggestion is that forget about love and be friendly with all of your friends and concentrate on your studies.
@moneytalks07 (219)
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11 Apr 09
Hey, your confused and so am i. From would i read i am thinking you have to choose between to girls you like the one at the camping trip and your best friend. Here's my advice, if you like your bestfriend, do you think she or you would want to sacrifice your relationship as friends. When i was sixteen, i liked some girl but i always thought we were just friends, ended up she liked me but i toke to long to tell her. Point being she might like you talk to her first. You know here well the other girl you don't know much about or don't even have a way to communicate with her. So the camping girls gone there's thousands of girls like that you meet in your day-to-day life. stick with your bestfriend!
@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
12 Apr 09
Well. As a guy, we are more attracted to girls when we are in contact with them. Usually when we are no longer being able to see them, the attraction will fade. If you can not contact camping girl, then it is best not to dwell on what happened there. Just move on. Address how you feel about your best friend, with the best person to handle that situation...
Your Best Friend. And please do stay consistent, as an acquaintance of mine mentioned, your profile says 19. There fore you should both be 19, if you are going to fib, remember your fib. Or better yet, be lazy and don't fib.
@mira91 (985)
• Singapore
12 Apr 09
Well then, the bigger than that question would be to ask youself why do you like the camping girl and why do you like your best friend?
Can you and are you comfortable with the idea of seeing your bestfriend as a girlfirend and treating her as one?
Could you get her out of your mind easily?
Do the same thing for the camping girl.
There'll always be someone who makes you want to be with them more...^_^ I hope you'll make the right decision..good luck~
@hamcenty (71)
• United States
12 Apr 09
It seems to me that you and you bestfriend are closer, and the other girl is just someone you are attracted to at the moment. The best advice I could you is to talk it over with your bestfriend and even see if she likes you as well. I know you may like this new girl, but if you do not have a way to really contact her and get to know her, then that can be a problem. Having somebidy as a bestfriend is wonderful so realize that being more then friends can make things complicted, but if you feel she is worth risk, then by all means go for it.
@acornsquash (98)
• United States
11 Apr 09
im sorry but what? all i got from that is that:
your either a manwhore that has lust problems
or your confusing friendship for love
@moondance61 (164)
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11 Apr 09
Isn't life confusing. Certainly our love lives are, the problem is, you are in love with this girl who is your best friend, so you are feeeling a double whammy of loyalty to her and then, because you're young free and single you met another girl but what do you mean about something not right that you got when no one else did. and why was getting to her really difficult. Maybe she wasn't single and the fact that you don't have her number means, maybe she was put in your path to help you realise that maybe your happiness lies elsewhere. Other than with your best friend.
