letting go

Philippines
April 12, 2009 3:34pm CST
I need your advice on how to forget a person who you are halfway of loving already... can anyone please help me?thank you so much..
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7 responses
@larish (2193)
• Philippines
12 Apr 09
Just make yourself busy. Avoid being alone. Try to go out with friends or be active on your career. Engage more time in mylot :) Time will heal the wounds that you have right now. It's very important that you live each day by being occupied. A day will come that you will never feel or remember the pain you have right now.
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
Thank you so much for your advise. It's really much appreciated. That's what I am doing now. I make my self busy. Hahaha! and yes Mylot really HELPS a lot! It makes me happy to read all the responses.
@larish (2193)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
Just enjoy your being single :)
• Philippines
18 Apr 09
I am trying to enjoy being single. I went out with my sister today and went to church I am praying that I can stop my self from seeing him too...and I hope I can avoid him... It's really hard.. you know?specially his my colleague too...
@rsa101 (24725)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
Well there is a real fool-proof formula in forgetting someone you've almost fallen into. But for your case, I guess that is more easy because you have not fallen completely. For now I guess you need to focus yourself into something that will distract you from thinking about that person. I guess that would be easy by getting involve with other activity with other person like friends & family.
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
hhmm yes...easier..but it's almost like the 1dt time I got my heart broken..
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@rsa101 (24725)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
Well just never forget the lesson you've learned from that. It will guide you from finding the right love at the right time. Have patience.
• Philippines
18 Apr 09
hhmm patience...that's what I am trying to learn... Thank you again
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
Hi. I guess there's really no way to forget. But time and a lot of effort in your part will make remembering not that painful anymore. Just focus on yourself and the things that make you happy.. family, friends, your hobbies and interests. Explore yourself and know what you really deserve. If a person cannot give you what you know you deserve, then moving on is the best solution and surely, in the right time and when you're ready the one for you will find you.
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
He is my work mate so you can imagine how much effort I am putting to ignore everything. Thank you for your comfort. It means a lot...
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
Oh I can imagine.. It's really difficult when he's always around. But you can do this. Smile, girl :)
@tatiana07 (498)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
time heals..so now try to go out with your friends more often than you do before.focus on something that interests you.or why not try to look for someone who will love you in return.they say the best way to forget someone is to love again.. happy mylotting!
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
For now.. I don't want to love again.. I am tired... I want to rest and take time. I am trying to go out more.. but the thing is am also new here.. in this country so.. I only have few friends... Thank you for the advise
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
forgetting someone who you learned to love is not that easy and there's no easy way to do it dear as for my experience, the more you force yourself to forget to more you remember and the more painful it is, just be patient to yourself then sooner or later you will realize that you already forget about him.
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
Thank you... I am trying to be patient..but I just don't want to feel this any longer...Thanx again
• Philippines
12 Apr 09
Well base on my own experience I just ignore my feelings and divert my attenion to my studies. Although most of the time I find it hard to concentrate while studying I still able manage and forget all the feelings and be able to cope up and totally move on. With this, I am now able to control my emotions and know when is the right time to fall in love again. Good Luck!
• Philippines
17 Apr 09
I don't know how to ignore this... :(
@savypat (20245)
• United States
12 Apr 09
You can't forget so just remember what was good and let the rest go. If you try to forget your mind will say that you like thinking about this person and so will remind you all the time. Law of attraction
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
you know there is this defense mechanism of forgetting thing in your life.. That's what I want to do now... Then later on I would just maybe remember the good time that I had with this person. But what I want is just to block out everything, every moment I had with him. I just want to be numb for now...to let go and move on.