How do you know a friend is a true friend?
By ajithlal
@ajithlal (14716)
India
April 13, 2009 1:01am CST
Some of my friends in the past make friendship only for borrowing things and for telling about their problems or to accompany them when they want to go somewhere. Most times when I need someone or want to borrow somethings, when I have problems or when I am sad or along call them, they won't be there. Are they true friends or I am just carrying too far? How do I know a friend is a true friend or not?
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3 responses
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
13 Apr 09
A true friend will do for you, and you will be able to tell him much what we can talk to each other on myLot. They may start by borrowing, but as time goes on they will do things for you. Also it depends on what situation that friend is in. Someone who has a car, and money and then wants things from you is not a friend. But if the friend does not have a car, or money, then she will need you. You may have to wait until the friend is in a better financial situation to find out whether she is a true friend or not.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
5 Apr 12
Also a true friend does not mind if you cannot pay back right then, but then you have to try doing things for them and do try to pay for what they donforcyou when you get the money. That is why when I watch the judge show that the defendant thinks that takingvcarecof the kids compensated for the money they owed them, Oh and thanks for the best response.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
13 Apr 09
Hello ajithlal. Based on what is mentioned in your discussion, I don't think that friends like them are true ones if they are not ready there for the others, but expect the others to be there for them. Instead, I think that both are supposed to be willing to help each other when help is needed on whichever side. I have a few very good friends who are helpful and kind to me like the way I am to them. I am very happy for the friendship relationship that we have. All the best to you, friend.
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@Darkwing (21583)
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14 Apr 09
No, they're not true friends. A true friend will always be there both to share your successes and when you need a cheer-up. They will instinctively know when your mood changes and will be there to help you through your dark times. They will be honest with you, share with you, and if you decline to lend them money, they will understand. You'll find this out about your acquaintances as you get to know them better and then it's up to you to move on from those who are not your real friends, and closer to those who you deem to be your true, faithful friends.
Brightest Blessings.
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