If your ex. invited you on his/her wedding will you go?

@n30wing (4768)
Philippines
April 13, 2009 1:17am CST
For me maybe yes if I don't have any feelings for her. But for sure if ever I'll be going I'll bring my fiancee with me. But I am also sure it will take me time to think if I am going or not. Especially when once I was close to her parents and her relatives. Will you attend your ex. wedding if he/she invited you to attend? Have a nice day to all of you!
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11 responses
@larish (2193)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
No, I don't see any good reason why I should attend. It may just cause tension. Maybe I was just saying this because I never remain friends with any of my ex.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
Hi larish, well I do respect your opinion. Well what if your ex. calls you up suddenly and invited you to the wedding. Sort of a peace offering of being a friend to you. Would you attend? Have a nice day to you!
@mimiang (3769)
• Philippines
16 Apr 09
I won't go unless i am the one he marries
@larish (2193)
• Philippines
18 Apr 09
Hi n30wing, I will just send him my gift. I don't think it's really a good idea to attend a wedding of my ex.
@modstar (9608)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
I am not really sure if i go but i think i won't. It might bring back the past and it will only make me depressed especially if things didn't go quite well with us even on our break up. I guess it's best to move on separately. I'm pretty sure she will understand. You're right, i will bring along my current girlfriend just in case i am forced to attend her wedding. This way, at least both are happy with eachother's newfound love. She too must attend our wedding! lol!
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
Hi my friend modstar, yes she should also attend your wedding. Well for me it will take me time to think of if I will go. But I will go with my fiancee, and be happy with her happiness. I hope she's happy too with my happiness hahaha! Have a nice day to you!
@modstar (9608)
• Philippines
16 Apr 09
Hey n30, thanks for the pencil!
• India
13 Apr 09
Since he would be my ex i see no issues in attending his marriage provided the breakup was a mutual one and not because of cheating on each other. If a person considers me important enough to be invited to such an important incident of his life,i would also not mind being a part of his happiness and sharing it.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
Hi diyadhrita, Well for me if I don't feel anything anymore I would really come, but I would bring my fiancee along with me. I hope in my wedding she should come also and congratulate me and my wife hahaha! Anyway have a nice day to you!
@brisk123 (2826)
• India
13 Apr 09
Hello my friend,if I have to attend my ex boyfriend's wedding,well it will depend completely on what terms we broke up.If it is on good terms,mutual understanding and no bad feelings towards one another then sure why not?I would definitely go and attend his wedding and be a part of his happiest moment in life.It would be bit embarrassing,if I go alone, but I can go with my friends.Good day!
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
Hi brisk123, same thing with me as long that there is no feelings and grudges between us, it's just fine for me. I'll even be happy for her and his husband. It will be nice seeing her happy, cause everyone deserves to be happy. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
for me, i wont go.. coz i dont want to be seen by our common friends at the wedding. they will surely ask me my opinion about the wedding and i dont want to explain my side, for our relationship was way so over.. id rather wait for the pictures and videos of the wedding to watch it than be there. my special appearance there will create fuzz and buzz in the venue.. happy mylotting!
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
Hi mizstress, well I respect your opinion.But don't you think that anyway it's already the past. Or you still feel something for that person or have grudges that is why you wont go. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@bluishrose (2290)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
I will if we separated in good terms or we've became friends after breakup. I dont think theres any problem with it as long as there is no more feelings involve. Of course I'l bring along my boyfriend just to remove any tensions in the place.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
Hi bluishhrose, for me for sure I'll attend the wedding if there is no feelings anymore and no grudges between us. But I'll be bring my fiancee with me along. I just don't want an issues. Anyway have a nice day to you!
• India
13 Apr 09
Very tricky and difficult question, Since It is Ex now, So I think I would go
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
I like that answer of yours, seldom an ex will attend a wedding of an ex. But for me it depends, but I'll bring along my fiancee with me so there wont be any issues at all. Have a nice day to you1
@wavelander (1528)
• Portugal
17 Apr 09
Well, it depends of the relation that you had with the ex. I have exs that i stayed friend, probably i would go to those, others i wouldn't lol.
@mapuang (612)
• Philippines
17 Apr 09
ow what a good question. well if he invited me to his wedding well im think of that. if i can stand there seeing him exchanging vow well definitely i will go and congratulate him.
@mira91 (986)
• Singapore
15 Apr 09
Well since he is getting married, i might as well throw away all my thoughts and feelings for him, and that is IF i still had feelings for him...I guess him getting married would be like a sign for me to move on and that the relationship we once shared was already great while it lasted and enough for me...I will go to his wedding to make the statement come true and see it for myself that he had found his happiness and that one day i would be like him too...For all the love that we shared, i'd force myself to selflessly put all of that into a tiny tiny box in my heart and lock it away....And to make myself understand that it's completely over between the both of us, i would walk up to him, congratulate him and actually mean it.. Yup, i am hard on myself when it comes to a ONCE LOVED person.
• South Korea
13 Apr 09
since i didn't take any serious relationship or intemate relation for them i would love to attend for. its my pleasure being invited.nothing wrong with that