Have you ever found out, someone saying bad things about you?

Hi n30wing. I understand what you're going through. It can really be infuriating and disappointing to find out that someone is backstabbing you. I think people like that are coward for they do not have the courage to tell you personally. I think you did the right thing by ignoring it at first. Wait until you simmer down for it will help you think clearly on how to deal with the person. But you would have to settle it with him or her eventually. Just keep your cool on this. Hope things work out your way. Have a nice day to you,too.

Yes, but it is always behind my back. If that's the case, I just ignore it.

I did and just like you my friend, it doesnt feel good and in fact it is so humilitating that you feel blood rushing through your face. I mean even if it is not true or if it is true, I hope people just live me alone and never bother to talk to me right before the face or behind my back. I never talk anyone that might pull him/her off, unless I have to be honest to them which in the same manner I wouldnt like to be talked with instead talk to me personally not to other people about my mistakes, we all have that. Sigh. Some people just has nothing to do.