giving up or keep it up?

Philippines
April 13, 2009 6:59am CST
i dont know what pushed me to write this down here. i was kinda upset with my guy coz lately we've been out of sorts. the thing is, we are having a hard time communicating to each other. *sigh* i dont know what to do anymore. there are times i thought i want to just let him go. why? i think this relationship is leading nowhere.and it makes me sad coz i do love him. i really do. so is love enough for me to keep this thing? aww..awful.. care to talk?thanks.
4 responses
@HelScream (2823)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
communication is not a hindrance if you really love him... there are no reason or barrier if you really love your guy.... Ask your self first if you really love him I mean the real essence of love and not just like... then ask him if he feels the same way try to make an open communication with your guy and be honest as possible truth my dear will set both of you free. If you trust , understand and love each other truly nothing could tare you apart.... have a good day.
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
we've been together for three years.. i wouldn't definitely last that long if i dont love him..im in love with him..too much..so i wanted to communicate with him, everytime, every single minute just to explain everything we both dont understand from each other. communication means understanding right? and we are lacking communication. he's not listening, for him, i was just nagging him for no reason at all. but i wanted to spill out what i have in mind whenever it concerns him..it concerns US. right?and i wanted him to do the same thing.just to make it clear between us.*sigh*
@HelScream (2823)
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
it's not how long you stayed with him that can measure your love for your guy and I know you believe such love could hold you but in my part sometimes letting go the person you love if he wants to be set free is the greatest love I could ever give for its difficult to let go of someone you love but seeing that person happy would somehow ease the pain of letting go.....I am not implying for you to let go of him try to patch up things with him and think of that special moment why you and him become lovers in the first place this would give you reason to renew the love you have for each other.... I hope everything will be ok with you and him for I know you love him so dearly ....
@larish (2193)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
I think you to re-assess your relationship. If you really want to grow old with this person - both of needs to have the same values and interest. Otherwise, it is not worth it to sustain this kind of situation.
• India
14 Apr 09
If you just want to let him go then after that you feel loneliness alos. You should need to communicate him properly. Relationship is hard to get but easy to loose.
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
it is just a trial in your relationship.just keep it up,there's nothing wrong in waiting w/him.but u must try to catch up things in ur relationship .