13 Apr 09
Well I don't have a husband, but I do have a boyfriend. And I can't allow or not allow him to do anything. He is his own person and can make his own decisions. I'm not his mother and have no right to tell him what he can and can't do, just as he can't tell me what I can and can't do. If he wants to go to a bar with friends, thats totally fine. I wouldn't always wanting him tagging along side of me when I go out with my friends. It would get annoying and probably cause problems because of the lack of independance it would cause.