How to avoid this type of peoples?
By srganesh
@srganesh (6340)
India
April 14, 2009 2:20am CST
Well,this is about one of my friends,who use to be feeling self pity towards him and have a negative approach in his life.Even though,we have stated him with examples to see life in an optimistic view,he continues to remain the same.What is worse is,now a days,after he leaves us,I too am left with negative thoughts for a while.Such is his influence.So,I want to avoid him because it would kill me.How can I?Please tell me!
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2 responses
@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
Well I do think that he is coming to you for you to really help him. I really think this kind of people needs a lot of encouragement in life more. I think he is seeking your light perhaps on his issues in life. Maybe give him more time to decipher what you have been teaching and if still remains that way give him an ultimatum that you might not be able to help him any further if he himself would refuse to take your advices seriously.
@ctais_phoenix (54)
• China
14 Apr 09
For him ,do your best to help him.
For you ,just don't worry ,be happy.
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
14 Apr 09
Such is his influence
Is he that effective? Man you would require that kind of person in your life for your problem solving. Once you are in a problem, you can discuss it with him. He can give you situations which you can not even think about. Those situaions you would like to avoid. Sometime we need some pesimetic guy to serve a needful.
I have learnt it in my software development course and I too find it true with real time problems too. He might not be useful for his life but can be for your life! Yu have to use it wisely.
