is there any of you who don't intend to have children??
15 Apr 09
Some people just dont want children I dont really see a problem with that, surely if they dont want one it is better they dont than to have one and regret the child and possibly not care for it properly? My twin sister does not want children, she adores my two girls very much and she would make a good mother if she ever had them she just does not have those maternal feelings and its not really a bad thing she is happy that is what is important, I mean she thinks im crazy for wanting children let alone 2 and wanting one more aswell so it works both ways does it not? I cant understand why she doesnt want them same as she cant understand why I would.
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15 Apr 09
lingzi, Unfortunately, not every couple are pro about having children. I have a married classmate who belongs to this group that just does not intend to have any children. Contrary to our traditional beliefs, you will be quite surprise with their outlook and perception. They just feel that children are just not worth it where after much devotion and time they could turn out to be ungrateful and impious at the end of the day. You may conclude here that they are just mindful of the end results and being too conclusive with their perceptions. However, you just could not blame them as there are examples for all of us to see. Incidents like children abandoning their parents in old folks home or migrating somewhere and never coming back or have them over. It is just them and we do have them in their midst. They have even planned for old age and end of days. Surprise? Well, there you have it, there are just all sorts of people on this planet. Take care.
16 Apr 09
lingzi, I suppose it is always to each and his own in everything. Opinions are just everyone's entitlement. Hence, we will have one side for and the other against always. Call that balancing up if you will, but I just feel that being too conclusive is really not healthy and not helping one bit. As for me, I am still fine and around, enjoying my stay here and feeling great having friends like you. Cheers.