are you much of a listener or a talker?

Welcome to mylot I guess you can say I am both. I hope you like it here the is a fun website. You will enjoy it. I have been here for 3 yrears and love it. Get you a t of friends, type long, answer more discussions. you earn more, I sometimes amke about 2 to 3 discussions a day.

well i think im both too , sometimes whren im over exited over a topic , i just start talking a lot and bore every one . sometimes when i dont have any toic to say , i just try sit quitet , and listen too the speaker. lol, so we both r in the group of both.

I think I may belong to those who are much of a listener than a talker. I am not good at talking and I don't want to give advice. Not because I am so mean or don't care about my friends, but simply because I am afraid of misleading them by giving advice. I think everyone has to decide things on his/her own. Sometimes others' views are helpful but can't decide things for them. So I prefer being a listenr to a talker.

If I'm with an acquaintance and if they're shy, I'd get them to talk. Otherwise, I'd shut up and let them do the talking (and let them assume that I'm a sweet, meek young lady LOL). With friends, I'm both - depending on what the situation calls for, of course. I guess I'm one of those persons who can either be a listener or a talker when circumstances call for it. :D

Not some people, most people do not like to listen. There are talkers and talkers but few listeners. This is a universal truth that all people tend to talk about themselves or anything more than listening. This is so because listening is a passive act and people do mot want to be passive. As for me I a soft spoken person. I do not say that I am a good listener. If the issue is worth listening I would spend thousand years to listen and if it is not even two minutes would be too much for me to spare.

I'm a great listener and can usually help people with their problems more so then taking care of my own problems. People have told me I should have been a physiotherpist.

I am quite a listener...I have a hard time talking with any person...I really don't like this habit of mine and I am trying hard to change myself..I hope I would be able to do it soon !

i am more to listener than a talker..i am not very good in expressing my thought toward people..i have trust issues,afraid people will take advantage for my trust towards them..prefer to listen than to be a talker...

I'm a very good listener and a talker aswell, if I need someone else to listen :). I guess listening gives a lot, it gives something to talk about later on.