what's the most hurting moment of your life?

@xannebull (1800)
Philippines
April 14, 2009 7:45am CST
the most hurting moment of my life was when my grandfather died, before he died, he went to me and ask for money. i haven't gave him because that was the time that i too have no money to give. and also i was afraid that he might buy it for an alcohol which is bad for his health,. that was the last time talking to him. after a couple of days, he died. that hurts me so much because we haven't talk with each other yet..
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• United States
14 Apr 09
I was married to my ex husband and pregnant with my first child. I received a phone call on one of my sickest days. telling me that my husband had another child on the way. The woman lived one corner from my house and she was one month behind me having my daughter. You know I had to file for divorce and move on with my life.
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@xannebull (1800)
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
oh my, that hurts a lot, im glad that you've overcome with it, i know that problems ill just surpassed
• United States
14 Apr 09
Not to diminish what has happened to you, but my most hurtful moment in my life was when my children's father left me to marry another. Yes, I have had close relatives pass away in my life. The only reason why these loved ones don't rank higher than my children's father is that those deaths were expected. They had been sick for a while, and were in the hospital, so the whole family knew that it was time. The way my children's father left however, was completely unexpected, and hurt that much more. This is how it happened. After being with this man for five and a half years, and having two children with this man, he decided to go to church one Sunday, without me. I was tired that morning, so I didn't mind. Only problem is, he never came back. I texted him, called him all day, all week. I never got a response. I was worried out of my mind that something happened, I couldn't reach him at all. Finally that following Saturday, he texted me back. He told me that he wasn't coming back, that he had left me to marry another woman. I was devastated. I screamed out right there in the middle of my apartment building parking lot. Not only had he left me, with two children, he didn't even have the common decency to call me or tell me to my face; he texted me. I was physically sick for a month after that, and still couldn't sleep right for six. This was the most hurtful experience in my life, but don't feel sorry for me now. This happened almost three years ago. He wasn't the best man to have anyway; and had he not taken it upon himself to leave, I would still be clinging to him. I would have never found the man who is the love of my life now had it not been for him leaving me the way he did. So, all in all, it turned out for the best, at least on my end.
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