do you think more friend more happy?

@fwangaa (3058)
China
April 15, 2009 12:45am CST
do you think more friend more happy? i have this trouble for many years. i ever have many friend. but now i have none. whether in internet. i don't know whether i am happy or sad. i think i need some in my real life. could you give me some advice for communication with friend . thanks for your good response. thanks again.
9 responses
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
15 Apr 09
Hi Fwangaa, I don't know you use to have many friends but only one left now? Because you don't care them enough? Because you get use to communicate by typeing words instead of talk to them face to face? To me, personallity i like my friends talk to me face to face, if becasue of the long distance, phone or internet will work, but you have to remember, reaction between 2 people can only be seen when they meet. So you need to be strong and go outdoor, go for some parties with the friends that you met in internet, then you will see who can be your real friend. Good luck!
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@fwangaa (3058)
• China
17 Apr 09
yes, if you only chat in internet or phone,if you meet your friend in real life there may be a reaction. thanks for your sincere response.
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
15 Apr 09
I would say it's not the quantity but the quality of friends that can make you happy. I only have a handful but they are all great people.
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@jshekhar (1562)
• India
15 Apr 09
I would say quite the opposite, my friend. The lesser friends you have, the lesser expectations and hence the lesser heartbreaks, lesser people to wish birthdays and anniversaries to and lesser people to treat on your own birthday.. lol. All in all, a great way to go.
@fwangaa (3058)
• China
17 Apr 09
yes, less friend can bring us less heartbreaks. when you have a birthday, are there have many friend to take part in it?
• Indonesia
15 Apr 09
In my mind ...and believe have many friend is better than not. Its not easy have a friend ..., Become what and how we are often influenced by friends. Choosing a friend is better than reverse. Not all friends become a good friends.
@fwangaa (3058)
• China
17 Apr 09
yes, we often influenced y friends.
@sk66rc (4257)
• United States
17 Apr 09
There's an old saying... "A person is defined by people he choose to suround himself with..." Just like one of the person above said, I don't believe it's the quantity of people but the quality of people you suround yourself with... One single "great friend" is better than "100 people" you know who could careless...
@cyrus123 (6364)
• United States
17 Apr 09
I don't think it's necessary to have more friends to be happy. Like one of the mylotters said in this discussion, it's the quality not the quantity of the friends that counts. Kathy.
@haiershen (1082)
• China
17 Apr 09
I think real friends need one or two is better, it is difficult to make a friend, we share our experience to each other, and know everyone whose habit,which food does he/she like to eat,etc.good friend will be make us happy, the other people can't.
@brisk123 (2826)
• India
15 Apr 09
Well I don't believe that "the more the friends, the more happier we will be".Quantity of friends doesn't count to our happiness or it neither makes our life more interesting.It is the quality,the kind of friends who cares for you and accept you for who you are.One should treasure such friends in life.Once in a while even if we are busy at work, in life, we should keep in touch.Give them a call, have a nice chat or at least text them.I have friends, but we don't stay at the same city anymore but we are still in good contacts.Either we call each other or email, or chat.This will not let the relationship die.Good friends are precious.Try not to lose them.
@idarita (18)
• Singapore
15 Apr 09
hi fwangaa, well for me... i don't need many, many friends, two or three will do... to share experiences in life, problems and stuffs... its not that you don't know you are happy or sad, its just that you have no one to share things when you are alone and have no friend to talk to. i suggest you recontact with those you feel comfortable to talk with and who knows maybe one or two will be your best friends. :) idarita