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@rocketsky (1013)
China
April 15, 2009 3:49am CST
my dear friend Gu,always chat with me on the topic of kids ,she said how she is eager to be a mum ,but god seems always to be making jokes with her . she didnt have a kid now . maybe something wrong with her husband ? i dont know
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@maximax8 (31042)
• United Kingdom
15 Apr 09
I hope that your dear friend will soon get pregnant. I know a lady that tried to get pregnant for 8 years and then she gave up. Next she found out she was pregnant with twins. I know that stress prevents some ladies from getting pregnant. One of my friends spent over a year trying to get pregnant. She and her husband went on vacation and had an enjoyable time with no stress. Then she got pregnant. My mum has a friend that has a husband that has something wrong with him. Her friend adopted two children.
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@kezabelle (2974)
15 Apr 09
It depends how long she has trying even for a healthy fertile young couple concieving a baby can take up to 12 months and this is still considered completley normal! If her and her husband have been trying for longer than two years and both are relatively young and healthy I could only advise that they seek some fertility tests from their doctor and see what happens then, often though the more you desire it and the harder you try the harder it is to fall pregnant, maybe they could try taking a long holiday and just enjoying being together ive heard this work for many stressed couples.
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• United States
16 Apr 09
How long has Gu been married. All things come in time. Let her know not to get in a rush. It will happen to just relax and enjoy her husband now.
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@skysuccess (8857)
• Singapore
16 Apr 09
rocketsky, IMO, one should not and never be too over anxious about having children, just be patient and enjoy the time together. Besides, we are never in the position to know what is wrong between the couple and hence a consultation with a gynecologist would probably have more and correct answers. Take care and have a nice day.
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
i guess they need more time to have kids, God is the answer for their problem but they also need the science for knowing why they are not giving a child right now. I have also a two sisters who have never get a chance to have a kids my one sister was about 19 years in marriage and no kids at all but when they are trying to have a check up to the doctor they found out that her husband has i problem why she could not bare a child. While my another one sister have been together for 11 years and still they are in the process to make the life be possible for giving god a kids for them because they are longing for a kids. But all of them are still happy with their life because god gave them a kid as a adopted child from my another one sister also.
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