EX? but Friends?

United States
April 15, 2009 9:44am CST
I have a question..........Is it okay for you to be friends with an ex? I ask this b/c I do have a friend that is getting married soon but her and one of her ex-boyfriends is really in love with her and he wants to be friends with her again...yes I said again b/c they tried like last year and he got upset b/c he wanted more time with her but she has someone and so does he. Do you think this is a good idea to tey this again?
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@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
16 Apr 09
First off, I am not friends with any of my ex's...after the breakups I just moved on and in all but one case moved away. That one case isn't by my choice. Anyways, I think they can be friends but only if their partners are ok with it and both ex's understand that it is strictly friends. It sounds to me like the guy in this case wanted to be friends so that he could build it back up to a relationship. [b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]
• United States
17 Apr 09
and i told her that......
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
25 Apr 09
im also a friend of all my ex... but i always put my right position in his life and also him in my life... past is past for me... so being freinds is just that it...
@chiyosan (30181)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
i used to think it is okay to be friends with your exs... but i think part of moving on will have to require you moving on without having to communicate with your exs. that is really the biggest part of your break up and yourr moving on will be. you will totally forget if you have moved on completely - meaning no more talks and no more anything related to the ex.