Friendship Is More then Love

India
April 16, 2009 11:19am CST
I am always comes to this conclusion that friendship is far better then loving relationship. We like friends more then anybody. Good friends are hard to get and hard to forget as well. We can share anything from our friend. Friendship is great gift from the God. If we are in good friendship then automatically we are away from all problem in our life. Even with the help of good friends we can fight we anybody in this world. It is great if we are in good friendship. Friendship gives new meaning to our life. Everybody enjoy company of good friends. So share here your opinion about good friendship.
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15 responses
@anniefannie (1737)
• United States
18 Apr 09
Friend ships are great to have I have being blessed with friends through out my life. They have helped me get to the place in my life that I am today.I hope you have some good friends.
• India
18 Apr 09
Is you ever taste love in life as well. If you don't know what is love then how can you compare love with friendship.
• United States
19 Apr 09
I have had love all my life from my family and my kids and I will always have that love. It is different from love of a friend.
@dreamdua (48)
• India
16 Apr 09
i do agree with your point....a ver good thing in friendship that we don't need to hide anything...suppose we have female friend and on the other side a girlfriend.......to girlfriend we can't say that i like that girl,,,some is hot whatever but to our female friend we can each and every thing without any bonding....and friends are really helpful to each other ...even we can share our finance very easy but in love always we have to spent for our love...simply friend is a very clean relation and the good part is that we can make as many as friends but we can't make as many as lovers
• India
17 Apr 09
Since we don't hide anything in friendship. Due to this it is great. It act as great medicine if you are in right kind of friendship.
• India
17 Apr 09
very right so sipmly great to know your thinking..
• Philippines
17 Apr 09
Friendship is quite different with a romantic relationship. Friendship has respect, trust and tested by time. A romantic relationship is also good but hard to attain since we can't really trust our partner. A relationship that also has a good friendship is the best. Me and my bf are into this kind of relatiosnhip, we are each others best friends and lovers
• India
18 Apr 09
If you have produced choice between friendship and true love then what you choose and why.
@Myrrdin (3599)
• Canada
16 Apr 09
I am going to go against the grain here and say no Friendship is not more important than love. Why should one trump the other, are you not friends with your lover? Do you not love your friends? I don't know why people insist on separating the two. I love my friends (in a purely platonic manner you perverts), but I am also friends with the person I am in love with. I would not give up my friends for my lover, but nor would I give up my lover for my friends.
• India
19 Apr 09
I know these things are related to each other. But main thing is that in one time you can be friended with more then one person whearas in one time you can't love more then one person at all.
@chmiwdy (72)
• China
16 Apr 09
The most true friends!Life is inseparable from the friend!
• India
17 Apr 09
Is you know how can you get true friend or is you know how to develop right friendship.
• United States
16 Apr 09
I can't belive none of you have taken into consideration the following: how do you know who your real friends are? But as a teenager, I think that friendship is more important that love. For example: I was friends with a guy for a couple of years, but then he asked out the girl I was going to to a dance. So in this case, love can get in the way of frienship, for now I hate his guts. And when I talked to him about it, he said he simply beat me to the punch. Now tell me, would a real friend do this?
• India
17 Apr 09
In these days tru friend is hard to get. You can't say anybody as your true friend. But if you get true friend then you are lucky person.
• United States
16 Apr 09
I totally agree with you. You made me miss my friends more with this topic. Yup, friendship is really more than love. Your lover could leave you but true friends stay no matter what. I've been friends with my best friends since we were in High School, so we've really been through a lot. We've been friends for almost 10 years now. Time has tested our friendship. I am far away from them right now, cause I am here abroad, and I find it hard to really have friends like them here. I do have casual friends, but whenever I got problems or I just wanna share things, it's still them that I am calling. So yeah, even if I'll meet the man I would love here, I don't think I'm gonna forget them, I still want them to be part of my life no matter what happens. Happy mylotting neerajpandey!
• India
17 Apr 09
You are right. Friends are true treasures in our life, they are important. But, I would say that love and friendship should not be compared because these two things are different from one another. Friends always stand for you in your times of need. But, how about making friendship with your love, after that he/she will also stand by your side at the time of your needs. I think I both these relationships have some differences and they are unique, should not be compared. I have a bunch of very good friends and I can't live without them. I can't imagine living without them after my college days are over. they have been a great support for me and I have enjoyed every moment spent with them. I would surely miss them after I go out for joining my job. But, I would make sure I keep in touch with them. Hope you liked my response...
@mansanas (15)
• Philippines
17 Apr 09
My bestfriend for 14 years tried to court me & years ago..Im glad I said NO! I told him, when I allow a guy to be my boyfriend, I should be ready to face the consequences that if things won't get along, you might lose him..and this is one thing I don't want for me and for my bestfriend to happen. He has been my buddy and my confidant.Im just so proud to say that until this very day, we could talk EVERYTHING this world could offer!I feel so blessed.:)
• India
16 Apr 09
hi Neeraj . i quite agree with u in saying that friendship is greater than love ,well i have a good friend too , and she is really helping and caring ,well she cares for me like no friend did before . we both share ever thing . well its not much time we meet , well we r online friends, but we live in the same township and thats great. well i really want to meet her , but that is not possible for time being since im out of town . so best of luck to ur's and my friendship with our best friends.
@mzj033y (185)
• United States
17 Apr 09
I believe there is a balance between friends and relationship. Yes we can share everthing from friends and friends are like family, they can support you throughout your life. But what if you get old, your friends wouldn't stay with you for that long, they probably have other goals in life and probably would want to have their own family. And so you would want to find your own partner, your own soul mate. There is a weight between the two so I can't really say that friendship is more than love.
@maeras (107)
• United Arab Emirates
16 Apr 09
I agree with Myrrdin here. We don't have to separate both and for me it's really ideal if the foundation of love is friendship because if love fails, there is still friendship to keep the relationship going. Your lover can be your best friend---and you best friend can be your lover???? lol..just kidding. But well, one of my best friends is a guy and we have an agreement that if we stay single at the age of -- (lol...), we can get married and stay together for companionship sake. Ideal set up and I think it will work :P
@skyla26 (284)
• Philippines
17 Apr 09
i think friendship is good so that you will know better the person, you will know the personality.some of them that's the start of moving to the relationship.
• United States
16 Apr 09
Friendships are usually useful. I think it isn't valuable though. I f have a friend who isn't useful, then you don't need them as a friend
@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
16 Apr 09
Friendship are valuable. You may have lover but never abandon your friends. They are the one that will support you through out anything. They also the one that will console you if you're hurt. That's why you should appreciate your friends.