are there any boundaries?????????

@parthu28 (498)
India
April 16, 2009 1:19pm CST
hi there.i believe that if you love someone we can go to anything to c the person's smile which becomes more precious than everything..........for me its very very important that the love of my life is happy with me...but sometimes i feel that is there a limit to it????? in my case i am very lucky that i dint have to do much to make my love smile........ are there any boundaries to the amount of love one can have for another?is there a limit upto which only you can love someone else??????i dont think so........i love a person more than anything in this world.i believe i can go to any extent for the happiness of that one person........... do you love anybody like that?is it possible to love somebody like that?????/
1 response
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
17 Apr 09
Love has no limits it's true and I know what it feels like to love someone so much you would even consider dying for that person. I think that to put all your efforts into making the one you love happy is admirable except when it hurts you, for example loving and living with an abuser; to me that's too high a price to pay.
@parthu28 (498)
• India
17 Apr 09
hey paula. i agree that loving and living with an abuser is too high a price to pay. what would you say if a person changes his/her complete self just to make the person you love happy ??/is it acceptable????
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
18 Apr 09
I don't think you should have to change who you are to make another happy. I used to do that when I was younger; I would even change my likes and dislikes just to please the one I was with until I completely lost who I was! You should be who you are warts and all; your partner should love you anyway and vice versa. I believe that any changes you make in yourself should be for you; you can't change for somebody else.