Do you love your younger sister ?

@youetme (352)
China
April 19, 2009 12:15am CST
I have a younger sister who is seven years old younger than me . We were born in the same family with same parents but from look to soul both of us are so different . My sister is a beauty and very tall . She is very shy and quiet but very kind . She always give me presents such as clothes ,makeups ,wallets etc. She is so lovely girl that a lot of people like her especially boys . I am pround of her so much . I love my sister inside my heart I hope I can take care of her all the time ,but I live a city far from her . So I feel very sorry for this . I hope in the future I can live in a place nearby her . Do you love younger sister ?
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@nokimchen (253)
• India
19 Apr 09
well...i dont have a younger sis.... :( its sad that you are staying far away from your younger sis.....i hope you and your young sis are in contact through calls or emails...
@youetme (352)
• China
20 Apr 09
Thank you for your kindness . Everyday if I spend some time on chating with her by QQ ( the tool of chating in China). Unless I have seen her for a few days on the internet I would call her by cell phone or send short messages to her . In short I will try to any way to keep contaction with her . This is I can and must do .
• India
20 Apr 09
ya...u gotta keep in touch with her... btw...dont forget to keep in touch with your parents, relatives & friends too!!! All of them plays an important role in your life.... i live in hostel but i do keep in touch with my bros & sis and my parents too....
@youetme (352)
• China
20 Apr 09
Off course I keep close contact with my parents . Although I live far from them I feel I am living with them . I always talk with my parents by telephone. During call I would like to share my everything with them by telling them my daily life. Because I know they still worry about me very much however old I am . In their eyes I am still a baby like before . The happiest time of mine is my spending my vacations with my parents for two months . Eevertime happy things happen to me I will call my parents or send short messages to my father on the fist time . All the years I am keeping doing this .
@cream97 (29164)
• United States
19 Apr 09
Hi, youetme! It sounds like you have a nice younger sister. I wished that I could say that same about mines. She is only nice when I can give her something, help her or give her advice. It is like she is using me for all that I can give to her. Right now, she is mad at me, because I was trying to tell her something for her own good. So she stopped coming around. I haven't seen her in almost two weeks face to face. But, I have seen her car parked at the post office, Dillon Park and at Walmart's parking lot. It is a shame that she acts this way with me, when she is the one saying how we should stick together. And then she leaves when she is mad.
@youetme (352)
• China
19 Apr 09
Maybe your sister don't understand you totally at her present age when she grow up she will do . You should keep your confidence and believe that she will change her mind for you closer relationship. In fact there was a big gap between my sister and I years ago but now all are going very well . there is no gap not longer . We often communicate smoothly and friendly . My sister has got to know her mistake before ingoring my care for her . I have change my ways of caring her . I believe you can do .
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@cream97 (29164)
• United States
19 Apr 09
Yes, I will. I will keep on loving her. My sister has done me so wrong in the past. And she has never apologized for what she has done to me. One time she had quit her job and she came in the room that I was in, and took a chair out and standed on it. She reached up and unscrewed all of her lights out the ceiling. She took the bulbs and light shade off. Me and my three kids were in the room hot and sweating. My 4 month old daughter diaper needed to be changed. And she was crying and whining. I was very worried. She took all of her lights down in her home. She unscrewed all of the bulbs, until the entire house was pitch black dark. The only light that was on, was her bedroom light. And she had that door closed with the light on. So, I had to use the phone to try to call me a ride to pick me up. And my husband got into contact with some of his cousins and they came over and got me. My sister has been very mean to me during the years. And I have never done her wrong like she has to me. She treats me like I am her baby sister. When I am the oldest. Our father says that she has a Bipolar condition that allows her to act like that. She just flips on people. She has done this to many people not just me. She now does not even commuicate with any of her family members. Only her baby's daddy father. Only because the grandmother is keeping her child after she gets out of school. One time she would not talk to this lady nor would she bring her child around her to see her. My sister was mad over an altercation that happened between her and the woman. It is just crazy how she goes on! She keeps quitting her job when she feels that people are making fun of her... But, then she goes and gets mad at me about two weeks ago, because I was telling her to not move into the trailer because it would be hard for her to afford to pay her bills there. I told her that she needed to get her a two bedroom, the smaller the bedroom size the cheaper it will be for her. So, she got mad at me about that. She was sleeping in her car's trunk until she could come up with the rest of the money to move. She had no help to just move like that.. She did not even have any place to shower up at after she got off of from work.
@youetme (352)
• China
20 Apr 09
Hi,my friend . Treason is kids's nature especially for present young people who long for being noticed and loved .But They look any boby as their friends because they don't trust anyone including their relatives . So they try everything to show up themself . In fact they are afraid of being abandoned and ignored . As their sisters we can do is love them with no repay at any price .
@chimrani (1430)
• India
20 Apr 09
[b]Really No.I don't like my young sister.She fights with me regularly with out any mistake of me. When ever she like she used to scold me and complaint to my parents.So,i don't like my younger sister[/b]
@youetme (352)
• China
20 Apr 09
Because you are so young that you can't understand the gap between you and your yonger sister . If you have grown up you couln't fight with each other I dare to bet you ! When on childhood we always have some misunderstanding of my relatives . So this is not a big problem. Trus youself and your sister! All will go well .Good luck !
@eagle_f15 (2052)
• Malaysia
20 Apr 09
Hello......I am so glad you are proud of your younger sister. Good that you love her but don't only love her from your heart as stated in the discussion...tell her. If she has email you can also email her or call her on the cell phone or text her regularly. Many of us including myself love people and appreciated them but we don't tell them that we do. I think it's important to tell the other person how much we love them and appreciate them. It will encouragement them. and on my part, yes I do love my younger sister. We have the same mum but different dad as my parent's were divorced but I still love my younger sister. I am married so I live with my husband in a suburb and she lives with my mum in another suburb about 20 minutes drive away. We msn chat a lot regularly whenever we are both online. It's good...to keep in touch and maintain good relationship.
@youetme (352)
• China
20 Apr 09
Thank you for your advice . Everyone of my family is trying to keep harmony with each other at present . I feel I am a very happy kid from my childhood . Becuause my parents love me so much and still look me as their baby although I have grown up not a little girl any more . I can understand what they have given me . So I think I can do for them is to try my best doing somthing that make them happy and healty . Everyone would like to do it .
@Archie0 (4667)
19 Apr 09
Well i think things between me and my youngher are not going good because she is very arrogant type of a girl. she keeps herself in superior sides than me, she thinks i am useless and have got no good work to do than waste.but its not like that. she thinks i am a spoiled person and so she cannot compare her high superiority with me and i seriously feel uncomfortable to be with her. happy mylotting
@youetme (352)
• China
21 Apr 09
Maybe she is spoiled by others so much she think herself superioritier than you . it is very normal that unfair things always happens to sisters each other . In fact we met the same matter between my sister and I . But with the time goes all can be invovled by time and love . Remeber that there is no absolutely fair love that happen to us .So we need more love and patience .
• Canada
19 Apr 09
i think your very affection with you sister ? any you may look like you fater or mother don't worry about she is tall or thinke about you love sister and she do the same and live ahappy life for ever?
@youetme (352)
• China
19 Apr 09
I look like my father's family while my sister looks like my mother's family . that is very simpl. Yes if my sister can live a happy life I feel very comfortable. She is happy that I am also happy .
@xbrendax (2668)
• United States
19 Apr 09
No, I don't love my youngest sister because we are so different from each other and there's a big age gap and also she is mentally ill and is holding some kind of grudge against me left over from when we were kids I think. No one can figure her out! She is now writing a book called: My Evil Sister and it is suppose to be about ME! I NEVER did ANYTHING to her and even my mother and other sisters agree there is something wrong with her and none of us can figure out what the hell is her (grudge)! I use to love her years ago till she got this grudge thing going and became mentally ill, so when someone asks me if I love her, I can now give a resounding NO!! I found out her kidneys are failing and some day she will need a kidney transplant. Will I go and get tested in order to give her one of mine? NO!!! (EVIL) sisters DON'T help each other!!!!!!!!
@youetme (352)
• China
19 Apr 09
I am sorry to hear that you don't love your sister. It is necessary for you to communicate each other . Maybe she has a mistake sense of you . As a older sister who should do some thing for sister in my opinon . To be honest my little sister has done something to hurt me badly . At that time she blame me and looked me as a evil ,too. Becuase I scolded her for her bogfriend . But I know my sister are still so young that she couldn't understand me . When a little sister can't understand older sister's love she will do something wrong or hurt her sister by some words . It is normal . Now my sister has grown up she starts to keep her communication with me and understand me . She has known that I love her really and do many things for her without any repaying . Perhaps does your youngest sister . You need time to wait love between you .
@gracie04 (4554)
• Philippines
19 Apr 09
Yes, I do love my sister so much... Our age gap is seven years yet we tag along very well.. you know, we have the same taste when it comes to food, movies, music, fashion, gadgets and many more that's why we really jive.. in fact, i'm the only member of the family who knows that she has a boyfriend.. as her big sister, i always give her advices that can help her somehow.. i love my little sister, i couldn't afford to lose her..
@youetme (352)
• China
19 Apr 09
Yes ,sometimes I dream of her in dreams my sister was in a very dangerous situation but I couldn't save her I cryied and felt very sad for her in dreams . When I woke up I found my tears surounding my eyes . I feel I couln't lose her . I can't image how I could do if I lose her . It is a real nightmare for me . So I cherish everything that will happen to us . I cherish our feelings and time . I would like do anything for my sister ,Only wish from me is her happiness and health .
@glesil_00 (1143)
• Philippines
18 Jun 09
Sister is part of family like others, i love her but not openly express. She is much more look nice and pretty than me. We disagree in something but as older than her of seven years, i fully understand that sometimes i have to compromise. We love to share foods, and she is the one who gave money to me, free me of some payments to my favorite junk snack sometimes. She love to make a joke and now that we are older, we don't have regular communication but we keep our relationship good by remembering each other to buy clothes or giving cellphone loads.
• China
4 May 09
I have a sister,too.She is three years old younger than me.But different from you,we live in separate familly.I live in my grandparents'home and she live with my parents.In my childhood,i pay little attention to my sister,but now i offten miss her and i want to look after her.But in life,my sister may be older than me ,haha!Both of us are studying in college from home now,we usually call each other once a week.We live in different city.Last week,she accepted my invitation to my city.I am so happy.
@dmrone (750)
• United States
26 Apr 09
I do love my sister, even though we are as different as day and night. We have our differences, and she lives about 2500 miles away. We have never been really close as far as sisters, because of our differences, but we both love each other and are there when the other one needs us.
• Jamaica
20 Apr 09
I am an older sister. I am 3 years older than 1 of my sister my father had with another woman and 5 year older than my sister my mother had with another man. I am not veryu close to my sister on my father's side because we dont live together. but when we see each other we get along. i help her when i can, she is very pretty and driven. my sister by my mother is also very driven and smart kinda annoying sometimes but i love her non the less. I love them both.
@SViswan (12071)
• India
20 Apr 09
My sister and I are 7 years apart too...me being the elder one. We look very similar now though that was not the case when we were younger. At first there were a few years when we weren't really involved in each other's lives...but then when I was 18 or so, we started getting closer. Though we were close, we would also fight like crazy.(we still do). We don't stay in the same city or even the same state...but we do keep in touch often...and she's always calling me up for work related help.
@KrauseHome (36752)
• United States
20 Apr 09
I have 2 younger sisters. Both of them now live quite a ways from me. My youngest sister and I are quite close, while my sister that is right underneath me, her and I are not close at all. But I do make sure and Pray for both of my sisters alwsys hoping for the best. But my little sister that I am close with now lives on the other side of the US so it will only be Phone Calls for most of the time for sure.
• United States
20 Apr 09
Im the younger brother of a 7 children family and i can see that all of them love me, and i love them to
• China
20 Apr 09
Yeah, I have a younger sister, she is 5 years younger than me, I loved him very much, she live with me now, we talk everything.
@skyla26 (285)
• Philippines
19 Apr 09
Sadly i born that i don't have any siblings but sometimes i can say that being a only daughter is a great blessing for me because i can get what things i want in life but of course not all the time. so if i given me a chance to have any siblings i will really love them.
• Philippines
19 Apr 09
I have two younger sisters. I both love them and give them equal treatment as much as possible. The youngest one is my half sister as she has a different father but I don't call her like that, I treat and call her as my own real sister. She never knew that not until my mother told her lately and she is 16 years old right now. It was painful for her I know but she tries not to show it though I observed lately, whenever we go out... she would say thank to me as she didn't do that before.
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
19 Apr 09
Hey, I have 3 lovely cousins. All of them are below 10 and are girls. U know they r so cute and beautiful that it really refresh me whenever i c them. All of them are very calm which is very odd for their age. I think i have uploaded one of their pic in my profile too. They are amazing and i feel lucky to get such sweet cousins. Cheers, Tutul
@zoey7879 (3104)
• United States
19 Apr 09
I love my younger sister as much as I love my own child. I just wish that I knew her better and that we were able to spend more time together. There is a 7.5 year age gap between us, so she was still young when I moved out of the house.