When was last time you cried?

China
April 20, 2009 5:08am CST
Psychologist also said that crying is a good way to outlet your bad emotions. So they encourage people to cry when they feel sad or uphappy. But myfrieds told me that it's getting harder and harder for them to feel like they want to cry. They just don't want to, i don't know why. Is it because they become more chilly to the life? Or did they lost some part of human being? It's sad that i don't cry much nowaday, i just turn it into angry and upset. I think this might not be a health way. I think last time i cried is 3 months ago. When was last time you cired?
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21 responses
• China
20 Apr 09
maybe two months ago, I was going home in my car, with sentiment music, I reminded of something, I felt helpless I dont know why, It will often happen, manybe half year one time ,or one year ,sometimes about the pressure of learning,nowadays,I will graduate in June, I am working in a company, I think I will have working pressure soon. I konw cry is a good way to abate pressure, pain. I dont care I am a male,lol I will hide in a corner nobody can see it .
• China
21 Apr 09
Hi Allen, presures are everywhere. Every one have their own presure, it's okay have presure, but you should not let the presure control yourself, you shoull be the one who control your presures. Sentiment songs will let me feel sad sometimes, but i will cired when i hear love songs, strange, huh?
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• China
21 Apr 09
you are right I am not pressure slave lol glad to talk with u
@fqiuhong (58)
• China
20 Apr 09
I cried 4 months ago when I must be out from home to school.leaving always be sad.
• China
21 Apr 09
Hey, purpose of life is to grow, you need to leave home and go to school for study, that means you are growing! It's a good thing. But i do understand you are sad because you don't want to leave your family too far away. i am sure your parents are always in your heart.
• China
28 Apr 09
thanks for your words, I understand what you said. when bird grow up, what it shoud do is just flying from home for ideal. I think that it is rule of nature!
@Hvaniday1 (550)
• Malaysia
20 Apr 09
Hi vivian, I agree with you because I think when you need to express it out you should not matter what. For those who don't, they are quite strong in their heart. I can't actually remember when is the last time but I do cry when smoke get in my eyes. Happy Mylotting.
• China
21 Apr 09
Hi Hvaniday, so you cried because the smoke get into your eyes? lol....You are funny. To me, most of the reason i cried is because i have a argue with my mom or so. More like a family fair.
• Malaysia
21 Apr 09
Having fun here, don't have to be so serious lah...Happy mylotting.
@ktosea (2025)
• China
21 Apr 09
it's been a long time ago and I can not even remember,hehe.thanks for the response on my discussion happy mylotting
• China
21 Apr 09
Hi, you are welcome.
@flagella08 (5067)
• Philippines
21 Apr 09
before, i cry every week for some reasons. it's my outlet. now that i have mylot i refrain from crying. this is the only place where i can air my emotions and got constructive advice. it's really nice to be here in mylot.
• China
21 Apr 09
Hello there, as long as you find a good way to outlet your sadness, it is good. Coming to Mylot is a good way too. I love the advice that mylotters gave me, they are considerate people!
• United States
21 Apr 09
Last night... I get lonely!
• China
21 Apr 09
May be you can find a friend to talk to, will that help?
@Archie0 (4667)
20 Apr 09
Well for me i think crying is a ritual which i have to carry every month. if i dont cry over something my days dont go well. i think it is very necessary to even cry sometimes, as you throw out all your sadness, anger and gist. i cry just to take out my depression and anger over something or some people last time i cried was just few weeks before and i am sure i am going to cry again very soon.. happy mylotting.
• China
21 Apr 09
Hi Archie, i am gald you are using a health way to outlet your depression and anger. If you want to cry, then cry.
@xbrendax (2668)
• United States
20 Apr 09
I cried a couple of days ago when I watched that lady, Susan Boyle from England sing! I can not listen to her without tearing up, she is that good!
• China
21 Apr 09
Good music can get people moved.I think you are lucky that you found the singer who can sing into your soul.
@ctrymuziklvr (11059)
• United States
20 Apr 09
The last time I cried was yesterday. I was showing my granddaughter pictures of my Mom who passed away last year and they made me cry!
• China
21 Apr 09
Hi, thanks for responding my discussion. Your mon is in heaven with peace now. It surely sad when you saw her pictures, but there also some good memories,right? Cherr up and be happy! That's what she will like to see from the sky.
• Canada
20 Apr 09
I would have to say that crying for me is healing therapy. i cry at least 2 or 3 times a week.i have tried to become a stronger person in today's society but I'm still a hopeless mess when it comes to crying .
• China
21 Apr 09
Hi there, thanks for responding my discussions. If you find out crying is really good for you, then it's good. As logn as we can keep ourselves happy and no hurting other people, i think all other way will be okay too.
@pro134 (45)
• China
20 Apr 09
sorry,i forgot to tell you when was my last cried is the other day when i was quarrelled with my boyfriend,i am very upset and cried for several hours.it is crazy ,right?everytime when i was quarrelling with my boyfriend,i always cried cats and dogs.i like crying,which will loose myself.
• China
21 Apr 09
Hi Pro134, little fights between boyfriend and girlfriend are okay sometimes. But not all the time, or you will both lost yourseves.
@sameeer (76)
• India
20 Apr 09
just like a good laugh keeps us healthy, in the same way when your sad depressed or emotional situation, crying can make us feel very easy last time i cired was last month lol, but i prefer to have a good laugh then to cry to keep me healthy lol
• China
21 Apr 09
Hi Sameeer, yes, i like laugh alot. Actually, one of my good friends, she always laughs, she just seems to be so happy about everything. You just want to join her everytime she laugh. That a health way to live as well.
@pro134 (45)
• China
20 Apr 09
a lot of people believe that a healthy mind is in a healthy body,,so if we want to have a healthy mind,we must first of all keep fit ans stay in shape,but how?what are the things that we can do to get fit and live longer?i think crying is one way,when you want to cry,please do not control you emotions,please do it as you like,this is helpful for our fit.you will feel much better after crying.i found this when i was very young ,everytime after crying ,i always sleep deeply.so i like crying and it is easy to cry at some situation,hehe.
• China
21 Apr 09
Hello there, thanks for responding my discussion. I agree that crying is a good way to keep us health, unfortunately, some of the people can't cry freely, they have so much things to work on and have no time for crying.
• China
20 Apr 09
Well, my last time that i cried may be several day ago, just feeled sad without any reason and then tears went out. It was a short process in a quiet night and i fell asleep quickly afer that. Sound a little weird, but i had released my stress or sad emotion though this way and it did works, proving the saying from the psychologist you mentioned. Generally speaking, the so-called "press-releasing" happens about once or two tim es a month, and apparently i am blue at that day. From where we live today, crying is hard for many people cause it's a sigh saying infirmness and it's human sense that learn to protect themself by pretending happy when they grow up. So my method may be a good choice for the one who want to easy himself.Just try it!
• China
21 Apr 09
Hi Zhangxiaode, your name sound like a chinese name. I am chinese, so i am sensitive about chinese name.LOL...sometimes i cried for no reason too. But when i started crying, i started thinking about all the sad things, and i cried and cried till i was tired. Then i fell asleep like like you did. The other morning i wake up, everthing is fresh again!
@bhokali (65)
• India
20 Apr 09
i was cried just two months before when my third semesters result came,my scoring was really bad that low marks i wouldn't had been accepted, now i am trying to me happy by studying more to overcome my drawbacks.
• China
28 Apr 09
Once fault is nothing, the important one is that you understand what you need to do. just do what you think to should do. you can get it, best wish for you,friend!
@bhokali (65)
• India
20 Apr 09
i was cried just two months before when my third semesters result came,my scoring was really bad that low marks i wouldn't had been accepted, now i am trying to me happy by studying more to overcome my drawbacks.
• China
21 Apr 09
Hi Bhokalia, i'm sorry about your exam. You cried because you don't have a high score, but did you ask yourself if you have tried all your best? If so, you have nothing to regret. But if the answer is no, then you should try harder. Good luck next time!
@CMTS_87 (1340)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
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I think 2 weeks ago. And that is because of my work! HAHA! Happy MyLotting!
• China
21 Apr 09
You cired and then you laugh now. I think that works!
@wolfie34 (26791)
• United Kingdom
20 Apr 09
I guess it's a guy thing because I was always told as a child never to cry! Boys should never cry, it's terrible looking back because in the past if I had of cried it would have been so much easier for me, rather than bottling up my emotions. I tend now to get angry and frustrated whereas crying would be a much better relief, but it's embarrassment, even on my own when I feel like crying the tears don't come. I think the last time I cried was when I watched Titanic and that was years ago! Sometimes I want to cry but the tears don't come.
• China
21 Apr 09
Hi Wolfie. I am not sure have you heard a song sang by Andy Liu, a famous HK actor and singer. One of his famous song is " It's not a sin that man cried!". This song is talking about when he was a little boy, he was told that man should never cry. Just the same as you! I agree that crying is a good relief.
• India
20 Apr 09
well i last cried yesterday because i felt that my dearest friend was trying to ignore me , that was a time i cried but only a few drops came out of my eyes.well that was the first time i cried in 5 years , i really felt good.all my emotions came out that time. well and for those people who dont cry ,there are some human emotions missing in their lives.well i can tell this because i too suffered this shortage of emotions.
@asliah (11141)
• Philippines
18 Dec 12
hi, yes,crying sometimes makes us our eyes healthy too because it wash it naturally with our tears,and also crying help us to lessen the burden in our hearts,and the last time i cry was when i broke up with my ex lived in partner and that was last year ago.