Are you with your first love?

I am not with the man that I first fell in love with. I was very much in love with my ex boyfriend but he broke my heart. Now I am dating someone new and I care about him dearly and I am anxious to see where our relationship will take us.

Hello lucky12. No, I am not with my first love anymore. We broke up three years ago because he cheated on me. Right now, I am with a new guy. We've been together for 1 year.

No. I'm marrying my tenth love lol

I would have to say yes and no. That might sound a bit confusing however I do love my now husband and I have known him for many years. However I do consider some of the young crushes I have had as a young girl. I feel that even though when we are very young we can have a special connection with someone special and never quite forget about them even close to thirty years later. When I was a young teenager I suppose that I was in love with a lot of different boys. Of course I was not mature enough to understand real adult love. Through the years I have found myself growing in my own maturity and being able to tell the difference in love and crushes. Marital love is very special. It is something that one cannot always explain. I feel that although this is my second marriage the man I am with now will always be my first true love. Giving of your innocence doesn't necessarily mean it was true love. Of course it could mean that for certain people in different circumstances.