Your most painful relationship experience was....?

United States
April 20, 2009 1:13pm CST
I know that I have my fair share of painful relationship experiences...but one that I will never soon forget, that is if I ever am able to forget what happened to me in my last relationship... I was in love, absolutely smitten...The most beautiful, loving, caring girl I had ever met walked into my life, and I could never get enough of her. Just knowing she was coming to my house to spend time with me was enough to set my heart racing... But it all fell all fell apart so easily. My previous girlfriend before her was jealous...and she set forth to ruin my new, wonderful relationship...and she was successful... She did everything, from stalking us, to breaking into my house and threatening to kill us, to finding out her cell phone number and sending her hateful text messages. Finally, she gave up on me because she couldn't stand all of the crap that my other ex was putting us through, she said she loved me and walked away... Now she's happily moved on with one of her exes...and says that she's happier than she's ever been...I don't talk to her anymore, but she's about all I think about, and I have so much hate for the other ex that did all of this to us... *sigh* What about you guys...? What are your most painful relationship experiences?
3 responses
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
20 Apr 09
I met this guy while I was working one day and we talked for a little bit and then I visited him at work and gave him my number and we talked about getting together sometimes after we both got off work. I was smitten with him and on our first actual date after spending a week or so talking for hours, he admitted to possibly loving me, and I admitted the same. He was moving in a few weeks, but we still kept the relationship and worked on a long distance thing. I made plans to move to be with him, then a week before I was supposed to move he deleted me from myspace and facebook without a reason why. I still don't know why. He has moved on i think and I am working on moving on from being so hurt and heartbroken.
• United States
20 Apr 09
Ouch, that hurts...I'm sorry to hear that... He could have at least been considerate enough to let you know what was going on... I think some people need to man up and not just think that it's fair to walk into a relationship...and then just walk out without even letting you know what's going on...
@modstar (9608)
• Philippines
21 Apr 09
That's painful alright. I never even thought that's possible. That's quite scary because of the threats from your former girlfriend. It looks to me like you're a victim of too much love. to and from. Well my most painful relationship was the time when my girlfriend abroad whom i faithfully waited for more than a year got pregnant from the guy from where she is working. The sad part about it was/were, i have found out about it first from her friend. I never thought it could be that worst. At first i thought she was just falling out of love that she's giving me less time. To makes things worse, she was already 3 months pregnant when i learned about it and 3 months ago, she even told me that she loves me so much and that i won't leave her. I have a feeling that the pregnancy was just an accident and that she's hoping that i'd accept her. To tell you the truth, i would. But she must be feeling a lot of guilt that it's too unfair for me so she left. We met last year and i asked her if she still loves me and she couldn't give me a straight answer.
@ds6413 (2074)
• United States
20 Apr 09
Most painful was when I got divorced. I put a lot of time and effort in making, or trying to make it work out only to get back together with him and realized nothing had changed. He was so good at telling me he loved me BUT was not in love with me when he worked so hard to ruin another relationship I had and almost got married to my first boyfriend. But dumb me fell for my ex's lies. Oh never again will I make a life changing decision like marry someone on a spur of a moment who has purposly hurt me. Sad thing is I can never get those years back. Oh well, live and learn.