Are You Still Looking For Love Or You Find it

India
April 21, 2009 12:43am CST
Are you are among those person who are looking for love or you already find your love. If you are looking for your love then what is your action plan for finding your love. What you do to celebrate if you fing your love in coming week. Is you think love can solve your all problem. Otherwise, if you already find your love then at present you are with them or you broken off from your love. Is you think you find all things or you are still looking more in your life. Is you satisfied from your love life. Or you are feeling that love life has more problem then normal life. Share here your opinion or your view or your case of finding love
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@zoey7879 (3092)
• United States
21 Apr 09
I've known love.. I've been in love... and I'm currently invisible.. rofl such is life.
@aabuda (1722)
• Philippines
21 Apr 09
I've loved...never been loved. Is is strange to think that you have been so kind enough but have not been loved despite of all the things you've done for the betterment of your relationship? I think I will not love again.
@zoey7879 (3092)
• United States
21 Apr 09
It happens more often than we realize. And also, just because you haven't seen or felt this love, doesn't mean that someone hasn't loved you. Some people are simply too shy, afraid, fearing rejection, or broken inside to make the first advance..
• United States
28 Apr 09
to aabuda, I disagree, I'm sure you Have been loved. I'm sure your mother or father loved you. And I agree with a previous poster, maybe you have been loved from afar, it happens more often than you think.
@chillpill90 (1936)
21 Apr 09
Well im a lucky one i have found my love, and in my case it hasnt solved all my problems as there will always be problems just some are bigger than others. Also the person who im with is helpin me to solve my problems and keeping my spirits up. For thos of you out there who are still looking for love well below is what i did: 1)dont focus on finding somone i found the more you look the morer you get hurt 2)just be yourself 3)be patient 4)now this one is ok if you now the person really well, meet up with them see how it goes. 5)get to know more people using the internet, if you do decide to meet up with anyone be careful. I have been lucky i have met up wit about 10 people from the net and im still here because im always careful i meet in a neutral area where they dont know the area nor do i and a friend comes with me or some one i know.
• India
21 Apr 09
I think you want to say love comes in life automatically. There is no need of finding love. How it is possibble my dear. I am searching for past 7 years but unable to get .
• China
21 Apr 09
you have the same points as me.
• United States
21 Apr 09
I am one of the lucky ones that had found love but that doesn't mean that all of my problems are solved. It takes a lot of work to maintain a special love connection with someone, there is still more that I want to fulfill in my life. But I still feel very lucky to have him because I see him as a partner that will share all of my experiences with, good or bad, and everything is easier if you don't have to do it alone. So i try to remember that when things get tough
• India
21 Apr 09
Is you think that he is your life time lover or you are just in one realtion of so many relation present in the world. If you think you find it for life time then you are lucky.
• United States
21 Apr 09
I think that he could be the one that I spend the rest of my life with, we have been together for over 2 years now so its definitely serious and something that could last a long time, its not like perfect love, we have lots of fights and there are lots of bumps in the road but through all of that we still love each other, and i know that is really special so i do intend to hold onto it
@drdivu (1011)
• India
21 Apr 09
well, i have not found anyone till now..!! not trying to find out as had just now freed myself from a worthless bond, from one that wanted a slave rather than a partner..!! my parents are orthodox and they would prefer to find one for me.. so nothings going to happen that romantic types...
• India
22 Apr 09
Is you not feeling anything about love. You are saying that you are not interested is you don't have feeling or you are not human at all.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
21 Apr 09
..I guess I already found my love.. we're happy right now being together with our beautiful princess.. we look forward of spending our life together until we die.. Having a love life is very good.. It gives light and direction to our life.. It is when we feel in love and we feel we are loved that we realize how wonderful life is.. I would encourage you to find your own.. just remember that when you feel in love, you look for the person whom you can't live without.. I mean you look for a person who will complete your life that you cannot feel alive if you're not with that person.. life and love is beautiful if blended together.. I hope you will find yours too in the near future..
@opinder (420)
• India
22 Apr 09
neeraj, you are wrong to think that such excitement can be felt only in newly found love. and raynejasper says they have a daughter...so they certainly know each other for almost an year!
• India
21 Apr 09
When you find him. I think you find him just 2 months earlier. Because I feel so much enthusiasm in your commment. This think can be observed only with new love.
@chastity7 (104)
• United States
21 Apr 09
I have found my ONE TRUE LOVE. we hae been married for 10 years now, and I'm not saying it has been easy, we've been through some stuff I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy, but at the end of the day, when he holds me in his arms, and I feel his warm body pressed against mine and I can feel the beat of his heart and his breath on my cheek, I know without a doubt that I am right where I'm supposed to be. When he is away, I miss him. If he is hurting, I can feel his pain without him ever saying a word. I would give up my own hapiness just to see him smile. I know for a fact there are no guarantees on forever, but I really do think we will stand the test of time, if we were ever to part for any reason, I would never love another, because he will always have my heart.
• India
21 Apr 09
In your case only I can say that you found your true love because you are with him for 10 years. And long terms relationship is possible only with true love.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
21 Apr 09
i found love 8 years ago and married her six years ago. i can say that all my problems regarding loves was all solve. she is passionate and she is perfectly fit for me. but other problems we can not control that. there are problems at work and at home plus expences and other things, but because we love each other we do everything without figthing. there are short comings but we are not perfect so that hppenes. love has made us better person
• India
21 Apr 09
I think you are in true love. Otherwise nobody can live for 8 year with any person whom they don't love. You are very lucky.
• Israel
21 Apr 09
Few years ago I wanted a girl friend but I didnt' wanted it badly. All I did was to be with girls for a one time only, and didn't thinking about any relatinship. Now that i'm older, I really want a girl friend to love. I feel that I have grown up, and don't play with girls anymore. I'm serious about it.
• India
21 Apr 09
I think you get proper maturity in love. You also understand all types of relationship. Due to that you don't want any girl badly now. You know all rules of life.
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
21 Apr 09
I'm not looking for someone to love me because I know that many people love me such as my friends, family, and my someone special. I know that my boyfriend love me even though we are in a long distance relationship for almost a year already. I know that even though we are apart he wouldn't find another girl and he will always love me no matter what happen and I do love him so much even though we are not seeing each other. Well, I can actually see him through internet such as YM and because of cellphones and telephones and also internet we can always communicate with each other all the time. I'm already contented with the people who I know who loves and care for me so much and I don't need to find more because I know that sooner or later I will meet other friends and became part of my life and will also love and care for me. Let just the things go on without looking for something.
• India
21 Apr 09
Ask from yourself that is you love them equally as they love you. You are in long distance realtionship . Is you are commited or you are cheatning. Thin twice about this issue.
• Philippines
24 Apr 09
I don't know if I look for love but they say love finds you, or love find its way.. For now, I don't think I'll be looking for love but if I did look for love I will make my options open for that, after all I'm still young and it's better to choose and find the right one, not just the love, but the One True Love.. Well I think he found me already...
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
24 Apr 09
Hello neerajpandey! I already find my love. I am happily married although we are still away. My husband and I are still struggling for the distance. It's hard but we can survive it because our love to each other will make us strong.
@s8tern (76)
• Egypt
26 Apr 09
well, i have not found it yet but my game plan is to just sit tight and she will come to me on her own accord that is what i believe , so, is that good for you ?
@mira91 (985)
• Singapore
21 Apr 09
I have found my significant other, and we've been together for 4 years, never broken up before because we both couldn't bear to and we love each other too much to even think of breaking up. Which is why when we usually have arguements, we tend to just blow up at ech other and never talk to each other instead of suggesting a breakup like many others do and i think it's really ridiculous breaking up over a small matter. Anyway, i am contented with my partner and everything he's done for me, and if he does do anything more for me then i'll be even more grateful...But sometimes i do expect a litle bit more from him but then irealised that not everyone's the same...We should quit the habit of comapring cz that's really bad for relationships..=[
• India
21 Apr 09
Yes don't compare yorself from other in any thing. it is bad for each and every thing. it is not matter of relationhip only. Always be yourself in life.
@pro134 (45)
• China
21 Apr 09
i think i have found my mr right.^-^!~.as long as together with him,doing everything is ok in the coming week.i do not think love can solve all of my problems, but love can let me forget all the unhappy things including all the problems,also i believe we can overcome everything if we try them together,sooner or later,we can get or solve what we want.through we break off from every monday to Friday,but our heart are together every minute.love makes happy.love is like coke:something you get as the product of making something else,it is very delicate
• India
21 Apr 09
Love is not about happyness and unhappyness. It is just about relationship. It is about understanding. It is about compatibilty. it is about feeling.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
21 Apr 09
I have honestly given up on looking for love, love is not for everyone, not everyone can find love in life and I am one of those people, I actually don't believe in love, well not for me, I have accepted this and I don't waste time looking for it because I know it's not out there. I don't think I've ever truly been in 'love' and certainly don't expect to find it. I use my time on other things in life, life's too short to find something that doesn't exist.
@opinder (420)
• India
22 Apr 09
I have found love and am happily married to him. He is one of the most wonderful things that have happend to me!! And it is not "two month old relationship(which u feel is the longest periodfor which someone can be excited about love or partner)" but more than 3 years long.
@coolchai (753)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
there is no one strategy on finding love buy praying for it. since love can be found in almost anyone. for myself i found my one and only , my husband. though hes out of job, he tries everything for us to have a comfortable life. i believe thats love, loving a person undconditionally.
@taface412 (3175)
• United States
22 Apr 09
Still looking for love...or waiting for it to find me. However it works as long as it's real.
@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
22 Apr 09
Luckily , i have already found the love of my life. We have been together for almost a year and a half now and things in our relationship are going out pretty well. we do fight sometimes and we also had challenges to face, but we were brave enough to stick togather, fight for our love and continued our journey in life together with the guidance of the Lord.
@scififan43 (2434)
• United States
22 Apr 09
I am currently still tring to find love. I had breakup about three years ago and I am over it but in the meantime I have not been able to find anyone easle to share my life with. Where to look for it right now is uncertian for me. I have been using the internet for the past few years and that is how I met my last girlfriend but I am not sure if I can dupcate that type of secceess. I think I might try to look at ohter wasys to meet people.