Could you make love with someone that looks really old?
By Citychic
@Citychic (4067)
United States
April 22, 2009 3:10pm CST
Hello mylotters,
Just wondering if you could ever make love to someone that looks really old. I mean suppose it was someone that you knew from ur past. Then you reunited with them them and they just look really old. Okay I know that looks are not everything but if the person looked like a totally different individual, could you do it or would you just keep everything on a friendship bases only? Meaning, no kisses, no touchy feeling and that sort of thing.
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9 responses
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Apr 09
If I still really liked them...
I'm looking older too after all.
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
23 Apr 09
True. Men seem to age better.
It's the number one argument for God being male! LOL
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Apr 09
Most guys seem to age better though, don't they? Doesn't seem quite fair...
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
22 Apr 09
Thanks for ur response.
To be honest let's face the facts, we all are looking older. At least with women there is a lot that we can do to try to maintain our looks, we can exercise and color our hair, put on some make up but with guys they really don't have quite as many options. Anyways I still like him but he's married so I"m not trying to get involved too intimately with him. I told him that we can be friends but that's about it.
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
23 Apr 09
Well damn, I'm old.
Now I have to cover all the mirrors in my house before I get an inferiority complex! Thanks a lot citychic! ROFL
Of course I could, if I truly loved them and they were the same age as me!
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
25 Apr 09
Every lover I've ever had (and no there haven't been that many! lol) had their hair turn grey within 6 months of dating me. Some of them were as young as 25. So what's that say about me? ROFL
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
24 Apr 09
Could you make love to someone that looked really old?
Lols, you made me laugh, perhaps you took it the wrong way. The person that I was referring to was someone that I grew up with. It just seemed like things started to happen overnite, one day I looked and his hair was all dark.... then the next year or two I looked and it was almost all grey. Nice looking guy, so don't get me wrong, I guess it was just in his genes for things to speed up like that. It just sort of took me by surprise, that's all. Nothing against you at all on this, besides I happen to think that most old people are beautiful. They must be doing something right in order to have made it for so long. Happy mylotting.
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@Lxandra79 (1535)
• United States
25 Apr 09
some one old as in 20 years older than me, then no i wouldnt I would keep it at a friendship level.
I actally dont date guys 5-10 years older than me.
But i dont care now, cuz I have a great guy, who is 1 year younger than me!
@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
22 Apr 09
If you truly love someone.. nothing would stop you from loving them completely... unless you are really superficial.
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
24 Apr 09
Most probably yes but it is only a conjecture. The tongue is soft and can form many words but when it comes to the crunch our eyes and tactile senses may send negative messages to the brain. So I believe it depends a lot on how strong the mind is.
Digressing from the question but still related to the subject, there was a young man in Sumatra who married a woman old enough to be his grandmother. The woman put on make up and dyed her hair black for the wedding night. For more than a week she made sure she got her rights as a wife. In an interview she said she had been dry for 15 years. Definitely the young man had a strong mind. I read this story in a local magazine years back, so I am unable to give any link.
Back to me - I believe I can do it if my mind accepts the other person completely.
all the best,
rosdimy
rosdimy
@LuvBr0wn13s (765)
• United States
23 Apr 09
You too (God willing) will be old one day. Hopefully someone will overlook that for you.
@chaijudin (506)
• Indonesia
23 Apr 09
em.. love is blind but not stupid
so is your choice
but i think can you make love to granny? ( yucks dude)
@happy2009 (330)
• China
23 Apr 09
"NO" I think I can't stand that, though looks only skin deep. no reasons to state but just felt is unreceptable to me .
@kaleem_jr (106)
• Pakistan
23 Apr 09
Hi citychic, like every image this one has got also two faces. One is you're blind second you're studpid. If you're repenting than its useless and a result of deed. Otherwise from my point of view you're not suppose to do it. B'coz you don't look satisfied with the situation you're facing and announcing to the world.
