What is your stand about flings?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
April 23, 2009 7:57pm CST
I never had a fling. I don't think I can handle the agony of wondering what I am to someone and sort of detest people who don't know they want when it comes to relationship and it's also a waste of time. The way I see it, that is it a way a sign of immaturity. What is your stand guys with this? Have a nice day to all of you!
1 response
@maezee (41985)
• United States
24 Apr 09
I haven't ever had a fling, either. I think it's OK - so long as both people going into it have the same intentions and won't get their feelings hurt. I disagree with you somewhat, though, that it's "immature" and that they don't know what they want. I find it to be the opposite way around - they know EXACTLY what they want, and the fact is that they DON'T want a relationship. I don't think this necessarily makes them mature OR immature, it just means that they're not looking for any kind of commitment.
In situations like these, though, usually ONE person develops feelings for the other - and it ends up a pretty messy situation alltogether.
