wat to do now..??

@drdivu (1011)
India
April 25, 2009 2:32pm CST
i trying to break free from my past..the guy was handsome, god fearing and honest but there was this problem 1. he was rude mostly, unless i m sitting next to him 2. he was always irritated and frustrated with life, coz being 4 years elder to me , he was 1 year junior to me. 3. he dint respect me nor my parents. 4. he wanted me to drop working, do cooking, washing utensils, helping his parents and always be at home. 5. he was always accusing me of either talking to any guy and about my past. 6. he dint like me talking to my younger brother too. now that i told him, m breaking up, he has ever been calling and msging me.. he said that u wil never be happy in life..u wil get ditched by someone in life surely..u wil not get better partner than me..u dont fear god..u have insulted me and my love and i have loved u too much but u are typical delhi girl who used me and my emotions..I wil promise improve in future because i know that i hurt u alot that time... wat to do now..?? shall i reply and give explanations again to him.??
3 responses
4 May 09
Hi there,Thanks for sharing this. Life is important to be taken seriously. Being a girl never means you have to surrender all your wishes and that also for a guy who cares a sh*t-lot about you. Fine; he don't respect your parents - everyone has reasons to argue. Why to go along with a guy who can never keep you happy in first place? Why curse yourself for no reason? your id says drdivu and I guess you are either a PHD or a doctor. You have many things to look further; Don't waste time for a time-waster rather chill and have fun!How can someone bully you when the relation is still not confirmed? How can you even let someone control your feelings. I've been into relations and believe me that a relation which is so complicated before marriage would bring nothing other tears full of a bucket after marriage. Everyone looks for hot chicks, and believe me college is just a beginning. I would suggest you to forget it and leave the past for better. There are so many things to look ahead. Don't let anyone show you back when you know that it's the better person you deserve.. Now cheer up and enjoy...
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@drdivu (1011)
• India
4 May 09
so mote it be..i m happy now finally..thanks to u for being there always...!! I m indebted..
@spalladino (17921)
• United States
2 May 09
Stop talking to this guy and move on with your life. You deserve much better than someone who treats you and your family the way this guy did. Of course he is going to try everything he can in order to get you back but there is no law that says that you have to play his game. Ignore him...change your phone number and have confidence in yourself.
@drdivu (1011)
• India
2 May 09
well, thank u so much for the strength..on slowly moving on..letting my past go..Trying to get along with life again after finally taking the right decision...
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
30 Apr 09
hi, sorry to hear about ur situation..take care of urself. i think theres no point in you jumping in to the well again..do things which are decided by you and which your heart says..but in ur siatuation juz analyse your relation and your bfs beahviour ..its wrong to break heart but i believe u gave him enough time to improve on his beahviour and work on himself. dont get scared if he says that you gonna get ditched by anyone ..nthing really happens the fate is already decided by god..if its written in ur destny u may end up being hurt by anyone ..but time is a healer...dont reply or explain him anything as u mite get melted again and fall for him again..which would not be fair on ur part. dont linger on things..if at all he comes up in front of u tel him that u have already been ditched by him and no one else can hurt u more than he did. take care of urself...
@drdivu (1011)
• India
1 May 09
hey..thank u so much friend..these feelings dont stop all at once..one day u feel moving out and other day u want to go back..well, thanks..i wil remain firm on moving out of this surely...