Does your spouse ever get on your nerves?

United States
April 25, 2009 9:20pm CST
I love my man very much. There are time he just works my nerves sometimes he is to pushy and wants to do things when he is ready not when every one else ids ready makes me crazy. Sometimes he doesn't pay enough attention to me then I get mad and grumpy. lol crazy huh so hit me up let me know what you think and if ir spouse bugs you at times or maybe even your spouse has told you that your the one getting on their nerves lol lt me know
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6 responses
@kishusia (1069)
• India
26 Apr 09
No, my husband never get on my nerves. We have a household to run and we have clearly defined roles and responsibilities along with other members of the joint family. I am a Hindu and my religion teaches me that both men and women are incomplete in themselves. They become complete when they unite in marriage. If both husband and wife understand this then there is no question of getting on nerves of each other.
• United States
27 Apr 09
lol Hindu? well I am christian and in the eyes of God my husband and I are united as one. But there are times that we need tim away from eachother. Not because we dont love eachother but just because we need time to ourselves. I think it happens more than people want to admit.
@mtdewgurl74 (18118)
• United States
13 May 09
My husband and I have been married 18 years this year(June 6th) and we were together over a year before marrying and Let me tell you, it happens all the time..lol If I am not on his he is on mine. But that keeps the marriage hopping I guess. It is something that last forever and never goes away. It can calm down and even go away for awhile when things are good then we wake up and poof there it is again..lol
• United States
27 Apr 09
The only time my hubby said I was getting on his nerves is eithe rif I talk down about myself or I"m bugging him for some bedroom action (especially with my first 2 pg's). However, he bugs me with his it's my day off I don't have to do anything at home attitude. I have stuff for him to do he just chooses not to do it GRRR.... Plus he maybe on night shift but boy it's like pulling teeth to get him off the couch, he's always tired even during his 3-4 days off in a row. I can see the first day but not day 2 & 3.
@Soteira (75)
• United States
26 Apr 09
You are definitely not alone! Mine drives me crazy too at times. He is a big procrastinator and I hate waiting. He is one of those people that does not always like to compromise or do things any other way than his own. We are different in so many ways that it takes a lot to keep our relationship intact. I like to get things done right away and get them done and over with but he would rather wait till the last possible second no matter how simple the task, it drives me insane!
@yspring (272)
• China
26 Apr 09
that is normal for all of us,,you love him or her ,you will know her or him.so just a little nerves,you can tell him or her, he or she will solve it out,you two need to talk to each other more!,enjoy the happy marriage,good to you two!!
@fwangaa (3058)
• China
26 Apr 09
yes, many times, i don't know what to say to her. when i saw her, i will fell nerves, i don't how to change my mood when i ssw her. i want to change another one. but i know she will very sad about that.