Do you believe in true love?

@Hedwig (284)
China
April 26, 2009 5:27am CST
I am 20-year-old girl in university. Though many girls around me have boyfriends, I am still single. Because I always believe that I will meet the right person someday ,we will be both attracted to each other and have some sort of connection between us. In a word,we are meant for each other. I am waiting for him and will keep waiting before he appears in my life. But sometimes I can't help wondering whether I can find him or not. Does ture love do exist in reality? Can everyone find his or her ture love? What' your opinion? Am I too innocent or idealistic to believe this?
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25 responses
@junojose (43)
• India
26 Apr 09
Dear friend,I think true love really exists.But you can't predict of anything in your life.Sometimes it may happen all of a sudden without even your known.You wont be aware of your unknown lover either.But once discovered, you will have to struggle a lot to make your love really fruitful.And if you remain till the end, your love will last forever.Hope you'll discover your love soon.All the best.:)
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@Hedwig (284)
• China
26 Apr 09
Thank you :)
• Bangladesh
26 Apr 09
I agree with you on what you said...
@apsara60 (6611)
• Israel
27 Apr 09
Unfortunately, it is only after 40 years of age, that one really is matured enough to understand what is true love, and who is the right choice for her or him. But obviously you cannot wait till 40 and waste your youth, so you have to make a choice and start life. Life is a gamble, if you are lucky, you will win and live your life and if you are not lucky still you will be alive, as by then you will have children and responsibilities and commitments which will not even let you die.. Best of luck.
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• India
27 Apr 09
Love may be true or false but life is real and once someone involve in love and committed than has to live the life for love, family and children. This ll comes thru experience. wellcome back.
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@apsara60 (6611)
• Israel
28 Apr 09
Mahesh, from my experience , I can only say that , Care is true love ONE WHO CARES FOR YOU IS YOUR TRUE LOVER
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• India
7 May 09
Absolutely correct.
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• India
26 Apr 09
Hi friend true love rely exists and believe that you will find your prince charming around you one day it may sooner or later. you are now 20 yrs only so you can still wait for some more years and definately he will be on the way to you. and will reach you soon. sometimes inncence and idealistic believing works nicely. good luck.
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@Hedwig (284)
• China
26 Apr 09
thank you. "Sometimes innocence and idealistic believing works nicely" I like this sentence :)
• India
26 Apr 09
do you believe in This sentence or just like it.
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@Hedwig (284)
• China
26 Apr 09
also believe in it :)
@lingli_78 (12834)
• Australia
27 Apr 09
i think it exists and i do believe in that as well... i had found mine and i married with him about 3 and a half years ago... even though we are still struggling and we do have our ups and downs moments, but we try to stand up and stick for one another... so i don't think that you are too innocent or idealistic to believe in true love... take care and have a nice day...
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@Hedwig (284)
• China
27 Apr 09
Thank you. I always believe love which have experienced up and down moments together is more deep and strong. Wish you happiness!
@darksorrow (4667)
• Bangladesh
26 Apr 09
Hmmmm. Well don't wait. When it will come to you, you will know it. There is no need to wait. I was a type of boy who always avoided falling in love. But when it came to me i could not avoid. Live your life and when the time will come you will feel it. True love came to me at the age of 24...
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@Hedwig (284)
• China
27 Apr 09
Thank you for your response.Congratulations on your ture love. Wish you happy!
@drdivu (1011)
• India
26 Apr 09
well, i was exactly same when i was ur age..but now dont know that if it exists or not..?? more so, after going through something really tough and the past bf, i feel that only few people are lucky to get a true love..I dont know that if someone worth loving wil ever come or wil have to compromise with my life...!!
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@drdivu (1011)
• India
26 Apr 09
well, now that i m 23years now but waiting for someone right...!!
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• Philippines
26 Apr 09
Feel the same here. But I still believe the right person will come. We just have to wait for him and keep praying. God will find the right way for us to meet the right one. God speed.
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@Hedwig (284)
• China
26 Apr 09
Good luck for both of us!
@NIECIE21 (365)
• United States
27 Apr 09
True love does exist! Just be patient even when its hard to be. It may take a while to find the right person, but once you meet him, it will be so worth it! take it from someone who has been there. People may make fun of you but dont let that hinder what you want in life. You WILL be rewarded for being patient!
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@nzldzh (75)
• China
27 Apr 09
Yes ,i believe in true love .Though i hve not a girlfriend now ,i think love is a magic thing that you can get a lot .It is important to us ."Love can change any thing "is ofen said by us .True love is one thing that you need to find for a long time .
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@ada547612 (203)
• China
27 Apr 09
Love is one such has been, for this problem, I have taken is to go with the flow. By fate, you will naturally arise in the husband's profile. However, if there are boys, the pursuit of you, I suggest that you do not easily give up, it is necessary to take the initiative and cherish the opportunity.
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• India
27 Apr 09
ya dear,,stick n your thought .I believe in existance of true love.You should wait for some time to figure out your true half, but you want to be fully alert sometimes your love may be in next bench .And you want to put some effort ,atleast small effort to find out your love,,Take great care,,Good luck,,
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• India
27 Apr 09
Yes, I believe in true love. I am married for 12yrs now and we met at college. We are the best friends of each other. Its good that you are not going into multiple relations…for many people this leaves a bad scar on their minds and makes them scared of love. I am sure you will find your Mr. Right pretty soon… But remember one thing…fairy tale romances exist where they belong to…Fairy Tales and life is not that. It requires a lot of compromise and sacrifice to truly appreciate love BUT it should never be one-sided either.
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@berrys (864)
• Singapore
27 Apr 09
don't you think experience is the way you learn? dating other men and learning through experience is a good way to know what you're doing before you meet Mr. right then when Mr. right comes along you'd no what to do and be successful and bagging him. (i made it sound like a kidnapping) but seriously think about it alright? i think you have to be realistic when it comes to love. you can never really plan your future because the unexpected always happens, try to be rational for a second and think if you keep waiting and waiting, one day you're gonna be 50 and realize that you don't want to wait no more and it might just be to late for you then. god bless. good luck. cheers love.
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@SHAMRACK (8586)
• India
27 Apr 09
Dear friend, I would like to view the positive side of love most. I do beleive true love exists. May be many people who go well with their lovers might have experienced it. Moreover I do like to have a true love. Those who have tasted love and enjoyed it. I am sure they all like to have true love.
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@sunhan (27)
• China
26 Apr 09
i think ture love exist.Now I am a 23 years old man,and I have girlfriend in my life.I feel I am a beatific man because I got love from my girlfriend,she love me and give her anything to me.so I think ture love really exist.
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@kishusia (1069)
• India
26 Apr 09
Love is always true. God manifests in human beings in the form of love. Love is always within us. We only have to discover it for someone at a particular time. You will also discover it. It is only a matter of time. My best wishes.
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@Galena (9120)
26 Apr 09
I do believe in true love. but it doesn't come like a lightning bolt, but slowly, over time. if you're waiting for fireworks when you first lay eyes on someone, you'll probably wait forever. but when you're with someone you care for a lot, over time you realise that you are linked so closely a part of one another, that there is no future for you apart.
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@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
26 Apr 09
Yup I do believe that true love does exist, no matter how unrealistic it may sound. Now, it is upon the individual how he/ she defines true love. Some person may recive gifts and may say that my partner truly loves me. Some may look forward to get attention or compliments or the time spent together. But I think, that there are people who can be very subtle as far as displaying love is concerned but can do some real ultimate sacrifices for the sake of Love, and that I think is true love. Where the interest of your beloved is a priority than you yourself.
@asherem2 (257)
• Thailand
11 May 09
True love cannot be meausure by connectivity or sweety - fruity feelings. It's not because you're strongly attracted - then its true love duh? Lots of people mistakenly consider "swirling emotions" as love. At the spur of the moment they do declare they have meet their true love...hmmn...seriously? here's my view of what is true love: when you can honestly say - you love his or her peculiarity, like the way he or she snores! when you can honestly say, you love him or her, in spite of... when you can say, you want to grow old with him or her.. when you can honestly say, i will be faithful to you.... as for the singles, if a guy ask you to sleep with him - and you're not yet married - kick him out, he is not worth your while! And there's no need for you to look around; remember: True love waits! (he or she knows you're worth waiting for!)
• India
9 May 09
True love is born only when a girl and a boy meet, exchange their thoughts, develop an emotional relationship with each other, and both should be lucky enough to have someone who loves them madly! And these things are natural and you may or may not get a the person you think is right for you. Some times we should go on with the things that may not seem right but our mind gradually starts accepting things. Cause sometimes the things that we think is right for us may not be so.