In a relatioship do you...................................

United States
April 26, 2009 11:58am CST
In a relationship do you accept your love one flaws or try and fix them?
5 responses
• United States
26 Apr 09
well if you are in a relationship and you really care for the person you except there faults as they should yours. you feel in love with them with those faults so why change them that is part of them it is what makes them them so why change what you love. i mean yea things get on your nerves like they leave clothes all over the floor well say something that it bothers you they may start picking them up sometimes. my husband makes coffee and spills a little on the counter and never cleans it. it drives me nuts but i just go behine him and wipe it up no big deal. i will tell him hes a slob and laugh and he will say sonething smart no big deal but he may wipe it up the next time if he thinks. i am not prefect and he deals with me lol.
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• India
26 Apr 09
I should say that as by any means no human is perfect.There will be flaws from any person.For a true and trust worthy relationship,you will have to sacrifice a lot for your lover.It also means accepting his flaws and trying to fix them up.Only that will help to continue the relationship.
• India
26 Apr 09
Yes friend no one is perfect everyone is having some positive and negative in himself and it depends on his partner how he will look into it. flaws are always their nad partner needs o accept him as it is, as he has come in relationship with these flaws only.
• Canada
26 Apr 09
I accept their flaws. I am in a relationship with them, not in a relationship with you they could be. You are t fall in love with that person for who they are! Their should be no reason that you need to change their flaws, if you are then you need to move on and find someone else. Everyone is always going to have flaws, we all do.
• India
26 Apr 09
well when you are in a relationship you have to except one with flaws . NO one is perfect , so neither is your love . we ourself have so many flaws which only others can judge . its imp to accept the flaws of your partner and yes you can even try to fix them but make sure in the process you don't hurt your partners feeling. so its better to discuss things with your partner and then take any steps . The best part is your partner can also fix up your flaws and make you a better person. but as we are humans , we can't b perfect so try to live with flaws of not only your partner but of all you are in contact with.