Do you think it is difficult to make decisions in your life?

China
April 26, 2009 9:15pm CST
Hi, friends, there are so many situcations that need to make decisions in one's life. Just like one ways in front of you, if you choose one way, then yu will loose the oppotunity to try the other way. Especially, some important decisions may affect your whole life. That is also the main reason why I am afraid of making decisions. Now I am facing one choices, I don't konw which one I want to choose because I don't know what will happen next step in both cases. Waht about you, friends. Have you confused about choices?
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
27 Apr 09
Hey there wanghui, I do feel you there in this topic. Basically when it comes to decision making concerning our own life, it has never been easy. There will always be blocks, pebbles and whatnot along the way and to make it simple, in my point of view, what fears me the most personally when it comes to making decisions would perhaps be the underlying possibility that I am going to end up making a regretful decision. But I do also have a principle on this matter. First and foremost, I tell myself that never will I ever regret the decisions that I have made in the past and which decisions I'm going to make in the future. That I have always assured myself. Secondly, I think that no matter what it is, I would have to think all the pros and cons before making the real final decision. At least when things do really go wrong, I will be satisfied knowing that I have think things through and come out with that conclusion and to live with it.
• China
27 Apr 09
Thank you very much, zed. I am indeed worried now. Sometimes,I am afraid of making decisions, because I will never know whether my decision is effective and right. I am always looking for the right choice, however, I find that there is never right decision. I fear making wrong decision and regret in future. Your suggestions are effective and I will try it. Thanks again. Best wishes.^-^
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
29 Apr 09
Best wishes too, my friend. I will take it easy and try to go with the flow. Hope you do too, take care...:)