Why do guys like to look at girls?

@mermaidivy (15395)
United States
April 27, 2009 7:32am CST
Can you guys give me some answers? I don't know why that whenever it is, whereever they are, whatever they are doing, when there is a women animal ,they just look and keep eyeballing. I understand that everybody likes to look pretty stuff but why the guys would even eyeball the girls in front of their loved one? Is it the thing that people always say men always want more than 1 woman??? Even though they have a great one, they still don't get satisfied, the more the better? Yesterday, hubby and me were sitting at the beach, eating ice cream. He parked the car and got out, I saw him kept eyeballing a bikini girl on the beach for long time... I don't feel good about that. What do you think about that?
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
27 Apr 09
but why the guys would even eyeball the girls in front of their loved one? why do women do it? Reality is there could be a few reasons....extreme being they want something 'strange' for a change more likely though, they just appreciate a good looking person...I look at other men and women all the time and have no problem saying so to my man.... He parked the car and got out, I saw him kept eyeballing a bikini girl on the beach for long time... I don't feel good about that. What do you think about that? But why does it bother you? Unless he's cheated on you in the past I dont see why it would upset you so much...He's just looking...Have you never noticed a good looking man on tv or when out and about?
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• United States
27 Apr 09
I do have to agree with Raven....there are lots of women that will do the same thing, I can attest to this because in one relationship that I was in the same thing happened where she would tell me about the hot guy...and if she didn't tell me she was not very shy about staring and flirting, RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME...
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• Hong Kong
27 Apr 09
Yes, I don't deny I will look at other men or women on street. Maybe, I am just looking at them, but in fact sometimes I even am not really thinking something related the person I looked at. My hubby knows me so well, and he just talks to me and draw my attention back.
• Malaysia
28 Apr 09
So Branoppsx, do you feel confortable when your girlfriend talk about other hot guys and keep eyeballing other guys on the street? When she mention sexy the other man is, do you give the same compliment?
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• United States
27 Apr 09
In my opinion a guy looks a girls because of the way it makes him feel when he's looking at them. Its often addicting how a person's appearance can make someone feel inside and out.
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@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
27 Apr 09
You mean it is addicting to look...?
@berrys (864)
• Singapore
27 Apr 09
be glad that all he did was see and didn't touch truth is everyone is guilty of it. women look at men too and women even look at other women too. sometimes its amazing to look at how women workout and actually maintain their body i find it amazing and when i see a woman or men passing by who has a good body i tend to stare too. dont tell me you've never done it, your husband stares at women for the same reasons why you stare at men. but remember he still loves you and he knows no matter who he looks at no one will eve look as good to him other than you, his loving wife. god bless you and your family. cheers love.
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@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
27 Apr 09
Maybe because of him has done something before makes me feel it is more than just looking, eyeballing...
• China
27 Apr 09
This is a common problem for everyone man!of course there will be such that there is a woman,but no man was so strong! A beautiful clothing,jewelry noble one,we will to enjoy,so enjoy a beautiful woman,or a handsome man,I think that is understandable! But you should be warned that the tone of a joke about the existence of your husband you are.
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@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
27 Apr 09
Maybe I should look at the guys all the time too!...
@jimmy87 (475)
• India
27 Apr 09
By me,a man eyeballs a girl in the following cases:- 1.When he doesn't have a girlfriend. 2.When the girl is too much beautiful. 3.When the girl wears a very skimpy dress or a dress that attracts attention. It's comes naturally,really.I have too noticed it.When i am with my girlfriend,even then my eyes can't stop exploring other girls.Afterwards I really feel guilty.
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@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
27 Apr 09
I think it is all the men's hobby, do you agree?
• Philippines
27 Apr 09
i think that it is man's nature to look at other women even they are with their girlfriends. but as long as he is just admiring those women by just watching them then no problem for you girl. he's just admiring other people as human being. keep your cool, mermaidvy!
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@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
27 Apr 09
So I can admire guys too...
@amitksing (1323)
• India
28 Apr 09
Its natural, if anything good passes by our eyes, we see it and admire it. This is what guys do. Girls being on the top of the the most attractive eye catching things list for guys, they just do it. Its the same as girls going at a shopping mall and starting looking at every piece of jewellery, or expensive dresses. There's nothing big in this, since these stuff fascinate ladies the most! The thing is, girls keep observing and keeping an eye on their men, and this is what anybody hates (being monitored)! Have faith in your man, he is not going to do something bad merely by looking at some other gorgeous beautiful lady. Moreover, I am sure even you would be enjoying the feeling of being the centre of attraction for some other guy !!
@amitksing (1323)
• India
28 Apr 09
Its not that I am saying that you are wrong and what I say is the only thing. It actually happens both ways depending from person to person. Its just that You being a female are thinking only from your perspective. I just tried to put something on behalf of men .
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
28 Apr 09
Sure, because you are male, of course you are saying all the good stuff about watching girls.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
28 Apr 09
mer. they were just born to do that i reckon.never knew one that didn't. since they are going to do it anyway just tell them they can look but they can't touch. if u8 let on about it the worse they'll be. give him back some of his own medicine, u can start looking at the good looking guys in their bikinis. he might behave himself better then. lol
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
28 Apr 09
i'm sure he didn't agree w/that. lol
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
28 Apr 09
That's what I said to him too so I should start looking at guys.
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@Jlyn22 (204)
• United States
28 Apr 09
I think its very rude for either a man or women to do it if they are in a relationship, especially if their partner is standing right there with them. If your single, look at anyone you want, but I think it is totally disrespectful to do it once you have commited yourself to someone. I know for me I havent tried looking at one guy at all since I have gotten in a relationship and its been almost a year and a half since then and I havent looked at any other guy besides who Im with. Ive had plenty of opportunities to stare at guys when Im out but I choose not too cause I have someone I can stare at whenever I want so I see no point in looking at anything else.
@Jlyn22 (204)
• United States
28 Apr 09
Well celebrities are one thing since they are on tv all the time so its kind of hard to not look at them since they are on your screen, but i dont sit there and drool all over them. And as for regualr people like in my town or wherever we go out, I have not once looked, glanced, checked out another guy since Ive been in my relationship. I dont feel the need to. And I know everyone says you can look just dont touch but I dont think lookings ok either.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
28 Apr 09
I know what you mean. Like the other buddy that commented on the top, people mihgt glance but not stare, it is two different thing.
• United States
28 Apr 09
You can honestly say that you have not found ONE single man attractive other than your husband/boyfriend since you've been together? Not a hot guy at the mall or on the beach or a movie star or singer or anything???
@nzalheart (2338)
• India
28 Apr 09
Hello mermaidivy!!! Yes I have also seen many guys who keeps eyeballing to a women. Don't take me wrong, hehe, I am a guy but I don't do that. I know how girls would be feeling because I have also girl friends, and by girl friends I don't mean loved one, just the nice friends. I too heard them complaining, "Look at that guy with...I don't like him. He keeps staring at every girls. It's like he hasn't seen any girls in his life." Hehehe, this sort of things I hear many time. I was also complained about this thing once. I was shocked when someone thought me like that. Well what actually happened was that, I was walking with my friend. He met a girl on the way who was the elder sister of his friend. I was just thinking something else and may be I didn't noticing looking or her, or she just exaggerated. Also I didn't remember her face actually. Then after few days, my friend once said me that she didn't like the way I was looking at her. I felt like what? who girl? The only thing I remembered was my friend had talked to one girl, also forgot that he told the it was his friend's elder sis. Complaining like that by her to my best friend, oh I felt so bad of that. I know my friend doesn't take me wrong, he know me nicely. But I had nothing to say to her, because I didn't know her and it was not the real matter of discussion. The main thing was that, I felt bad by her comment. But its gone now, even though I don't talk to her, I hope she got her sense corrected on mine because of her sister and my friend. And now the conclusion is sometimes it happens that the guys may not be intentionally watching the girls. And still I can't say this happens all the time. There are guys who just keep on looking and looking and see the reaction on the face of the girls. Personally I too don't like it. And about me, while walking on the way, I may have take a double look at some pretty faces walking on the way. But I don't keep staring them, it's not a good idea. And about the man looking at the girl in the beach, he surely has ill intention in his mind. He was just taking fun looking at that women... Keep mylotting...Nice post...See you again...
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
28 Apr 09
What you said is exactly what I meant! I think it is perectly fine that guys and girls just look each other like walking on the street if suddenly something handsome/pretty draws your attention but staring at somebody for a long time is a whole different animal. That's what I think.
@nzalheart (2338)
• India
6 May 09
Thanks for selecting this response as the best...Keep mylotting...
@gxyywhyzy (450)
• China
28 Apr 09
This is quite normal.every man love beautiful or attractive girls.Never mind his behavior.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
28 Apr 09
And all men likes young girls, what would happen when I get old.
• China
29 Apr 09
You must be sure the most importance that your spouse love you much,also he will never do another things that sorry for you.
@HelloMickey (1655)
• Hong Kong
27 Apr 09
Hello mermaidivy Sometimes we look at people only out of curiosity, I often look at men/women who I think they are in good fashion, have nice hair cut, wear very pretty make-up, or sometimes I look at them because they look strange.
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• Philippines
28 Apr 09
Maybe that's their nature because sometimes i can see my boyfriend glanced at other girls .. *not STARING* .. because staring and glanced is not the same .. glanced is a brief look or quick look .. and staring is something a fixed look with the eyes wide open .. something thinking fishy ..
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
28 Apr 09
My hubby was staring not just glancing... so it meants sometihng to me...
• Philippines
5 May 09
That's too much .. I cant take my bf's staring at other girls..
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
28 Apr 09
I have a boyfriend and he's not like that at all. Whenever we're together he doesn't try to catch another woman's eye. Guys who do the stuff that your hubby does always defend themselves by saying that "boys will be boys," but I think that's just crap guys invented to get away with being unfaithful. Not all guys are like that, and I'm not saying that because I'm just so naive. I've had other boyfriends like your hubby. I didn't like what they were doing so I searched for a better one, and luckily I found him.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
28 Apr 09
I think I accpet that he just glance like scan it real quick, but when he looks more than 1 minute and check out the whole body, I think it is a problem to me.
• United States
28 Apr 09
I'm sure your man looks when you're not around.. it is human nature. And it doesn't make him an unfaithful man. I'll admit my fiance doesn't look as obviously as I've had some boyfriends look - but I know he does it and its fine. He comes home to me, he only touches me, he only kisses me, so whats the harm??? Besides... I'd be DEVISTATED if I wasn't allowed to drool over Paul Walker from time to time! lol
• Indonesia
28 Apr 09
I think is natural, becuse we (Guys) has some electrick wave when we saw a woman, even though the girl isnot to pretty... but we do feeling this awesome wave. woman has magnet to attracted man to getting closer with them.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
28 Apr 09
electrick wave? I have never heard of it before, I thought it is just their hobby to do so.
@ralphido (842)
• India
28 Apr 09
its like asking why the compass always points north.. for men beauty is synonymous with women and men believe that beauty is something that is skin deep and its all there to be enjoyed before it gets lost.. so no matter how beautiful wife a man has got .. he will always keep an eye out for other beautiful women...happy mylotting..;)
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
29 Apr 09
so no matter how beautiful wife a man has got .. he will always keep an eye out for other beautiful women...
@gxyywhyzy (450)
• China
29 Apr 09
The girl's inner beauty is much more important than her apperance.we must enhance our inners.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
29 Apr 09
Thanks for responding!
• China
28 Apr 09
Well,it's so common that ppl like to see beautiful stuff,can't you say you'll pay attention on the beg rather than flower?So am i,honestly,i like to see handsome guys,that can make me feel good.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
28 Apr 09
I don't know...
• Ireland
28 Apr 09
I think all of us,not only the boys,but also the girls like to look at beautiful girls,including me,because seeing the beautiful and lovely girl can protect our eyes and bring us a good mood,i think so,best wishes!
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
28 Apr 09
seeing the beautiful and lovely girl can protect our eyes and bring us a good mood...
@betsyhu (207)
• China
28 Apr 09
Haa,Even if you are most beautiful girl in the world, you still prevent your hubby to eyeball other girl althought they is not nore beautiful than you. it's a eternal topic between man and woman beyond country bounded and time.No solution, because we all like to look through beautiful things or persons in nature. You'd better to be open-minded.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
28 Apr 09
I'm not open-minded at all.