growing problems

India
April 27, 2009 8:24pm CST
i have son and daughter.my daughter is o.k.she obey me in everything.but my son is only 5 years old.he always scold me.never obey me.he uses bad words.i can not tolerate his activities.some times i beat him severely.what is the solution?
3 responses
• India
11 May 09
i think that u should program his day in order keep him bussy. Make him join the activities of him interest so that he can utilise him energies in something positive. do not hit him. punish him in a different way like:- locking him in a room or not giving him what he like in the food. do this when u r not left with any other option. try to motivate him by gifts n outings. try to improve the bonding between u n ur son by surprising him with something new. try to make him understand that u need to behave properly if u want good gift, rides or fun activities. no pain no gain. if u do good, u get good. if u do bad, u get bad. don't be dishearted. take this challenge n try ur level best. all the best take care bhaskar.
@meandmy3 (2227)
• United States
28 Apr 09
Maybe you need to re evaluate your form of discipline with your son, what you are doing is not working. I suggest you look into 1 2 3 magic for Christian parents. It has done wonders for my kids. In fact they are like different children.
@Tessa815 (26)
• United States
28 Apr 09
Thats really messed up. If you can handle his behavior in an appropriate way,other than beating him like that then maybe you shouldnt have him. No matter his vocabulary is, a 5 year old shouldnt be hit at all like that. Honestly, that kind of thing should be reported to cps.