Will you forgive your husband if he kill your baby?
By redsponge
@redsponge (557)
Malaysia
April 28, 2009 3:45am CST
There is a case happened in Taiwan recently where the couples quarreled and the husband throw their 10 months baby into the hot boiling oil. The mother quickly rescued the baby from the boiling oil and asked for help at nearby police station. The polices immediately helped the baby. The baby was rushed to hospital and treated. However, she cannot escaped from the death. The dad is jailed. When the mother was asked whether she will ever forgive her husband, her answer is no. She added that forgiving is just meaningless. Do you mind to share your opinion? I am very sad when I watched the news. 
What kind of a father?
I will never forgive him. 
I cannot imagine how it is like when the baby is being thrown into the boiling oil! Poor girl! I hope she can rest in peace now!
What kind of a father? I will never forgive him. I cannot imagine how it is like when the baby is being thrown into the boiling oil! Poor girl! I hope she can rest in peace now!11 people like this
35 responses
@orang13 (723)
• Philippines
28 Apr 09
he must be punish cruelly!
the poor little child need justice and thanks for the mother that she really did not forgive the man. What an unrighteous thing a father can do to his own child? what was he an addict? it is really a terrible story, the father must be thrown also into a hot boiling oil, or maybe directly in hell!
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@redsponge (557)
• Malaysia
28 Apr 09
No, I do not think he is an addict. But according to the neighbours, he is a hot-tempered person! He is cruel towards animals too. But the neighbours never expect he could do such thing to his own daughter. This case reminded me that if you see any abusing, please report to police or any related party. You would never want to see anything worse happen.
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@moonchild117 (1987)
• Philippines
28 Apr 09
That is just horrible and despicable. Why would the father do that? Why vent out on the innocent baby? If that happened to me, I could never ever forgive the father for doing that to our baby. She's also his flesh and blood. Someone who is capable of doing that does not deserve my mercy.
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@redsponge (557)
• Malaysia
28 Apr 09
moonchild117, like your response. Straight forward and clear.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
28 Apr 09
What kind of monster is that man? Killing his own flesh and blood is a satanic act. I will never ever forgive such kind of beast and even animals are very protective of their youngs. He deserve to be sent to the gallows. Let God meter out His punishment on him by throwing him to the fire of hell.
@redsponge (557)
• Malaysia
28 Apr 09
The news highlight on the baby girl more. I am not sure whether the monster ever regret of what he had done or did he ever feel sad. I do hope that he will get the punishment. His daughter is so innocent.
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@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
28 Apr 09
Such a cruel father. The mother must be feeling so sad and shock to see what her husband had did to their baby daughter. This person really not deserve any mercy for him. He act so cruel even to a small little child. No forgiveness can be accepted anymore. When does this case happened?
@angelican (195)
• United States
28 Apr 09
I can't imagine anyone forgiving him! I would do whatever I could do make sure he suffered for the rest of his life. There is no reason in the world to harm an inoccent child. 10 months old, are you kidding me. They are precious in every way and I hope it haunts him every day for the rest of his life.
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@redsponge (557)
• Malaysia
28 Apr 09
angelican, this is true and I also cannot imagine how a father could ever do that to his own child!
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
6 Mar 10
How terrible! I would never have forgiven my husband if he had done that. And to think..the child was his own! Any person who has no control over his/her emotions to the extent of doing such a horrible thing doesn't need to be forgiven! Just thinking about it is making me mad.
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
29 Apr 09
definitely no, no forgiveness in such cases. To pull a baby into a fight between adults is the most pervert way of expressing anger and trying to get even. And excuse me here, but I find men who do this, think of it as a way of teaching the mother a lesson. Something similar happened here in India a few months back…the couple were fighting and the pregnant lady when to stay with her parents forever. However, after delivery the man went to the hospital and after lots of drama about being sorry he took his wife and infant daughter home and when the mother was sleeping, he quietly took the baby and threw it in the well in the courtyard. Can you imagine?
@redsponge (557)
• Malaysia
29 Apr 09
sudiptacallingu, my goodness, I have never think of that. I mean men who do this, think of it as a way of teaching the mother a lesson! Now I do not understand how can a father have no feelings towards his own child at all! How can he kill her just to punish his wife like that as if he has no relation to the baby.
By the way, after reading the story you shared, I think all LADIES should leave their husband or boyfriend if they hit or beat them. Men like that are dangerous and definitely not worth to spend life with them!
@spicysweetie21 (2573)
• United States
29 Apr 09
God no I would never EVER forgive my husband if he were to do that to our baby, let alone any baby. Its wrong in any aspect to take out fighting or anger onto a child and even worse an infant, but to throw them into boiling water means that he is seriously sick and evil. He deserves no forgivness because of the disgusting pain that he inflicted on a tiny helpless baby
@psyche49f (2502)
• Philippines
28 Apr 09
Of course, the wife could never forgive the husband for being a jerk...imagine, to have killed his own baby....he should rot in jail...I could not imagine him being out in the open and enjoying while the baby is killed...
@Corgiiscute (315)
• United States
28 Apr 09
No chance in heck could I ever forgive him! :O I mean, maybe I could try to forgive enough not to be so angry after a while, but not completely. And I definitely could not be around him anymore. That's horrible.
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@redsponge (557)
• Malaysia
28 Apr 09
Corgiiscute, you are right. I am sure no one would be able to sleep in the same bed with a killer. You know? So far, I have not receive any response here saying that they can forgive such a husband. I watched the news on TV till my tears dropped. I hope the mother would be strong enough to go through the loss of the daughter and also the husband.
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@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
28 Apr 09
what a shocking, horrible, sad story this is...
i feel sorry for the little one. my.... what the heck's wrong with the father's mind??? i can never ever forgive something like that.
well i hope he rots in jail. if i am the mother, i will probably kill that man myself or pour boiling oil on him so he'll know the pain and how my child suffered from it.
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@omiami (412)
• Malta
28 Apr 09
I would never ever forget anyone and I repeat anyone who harms my child or other children. They are innocent and no one should harm them for no reason what so ever.I dont have words to describe these people. Really I dont know what to say! I ask one thing: Do these people really exist? they do and this scares me a lot. How can a father or mother harm their son/daughter?i cannot find an answer!
@angelicwhisper (60)
• Philippines
28 Apr 09
I don't know if there is anyone in the world who can forgive such a horrible man.
If there is, then I cannot forgive him.
@jewel76 (2305)
• Canada
30 Apr 09
Any woman who would forgive such a beast is an accomplice!! OMG the suffering this poor baby girl must've gone through before her last breath!!! OMG, i think i'd kill my husband if he did this to our child!!! I hope this beast rots in jail for the rest of his miserable life!!
@mflower2053 (3223)
• United States
30 Apr 09
I would not be able to forgive the father of my baby if that would happen to my child. That is crazy. I not sure how some people can do things like that to children or anyone for that matter.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
1 May 09
I don't think that I could ever again trust a man that has that kind of temper. It appears that he has no self control and little regard for human life. Forgive him, probably. Otherwise the hatred would more than likely make one ill, but I'd never want to see his face again.
@jessi0887 (2788)
• United States
30 Apr 09
That is horrible. THat child must of suffered so much pain. That father should suffer in some sort of way. How can people drag children innocent victims into such things. This just makes me want to cry.
@fengtl921 (46)
• China
5 May 09
I can't believe the news.But I trust you have tell the truth.A father must love his wife and his baby.The farther you tell who must be shot with AK - 47 for 1000 times.
