Virgin ?

@lynn23 (31)
United States
April 28, 2009 10:37am CST
I had an interesting discussion a few days ago with a friend. She had told me that her husband was still a virgin when she met, even though she was quite experienced. She thought that that was very special to her. Both my husband and I had had lovers before we met. But I was wondering how many women here were able to "de-flower" their men?
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Margajoe
@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
28 Apr 09
I had a few in my time. But, I am more for experienced men. I like a man to know what he is doing. That makes me feel like a women. But, everyone is different. Take care, have a nice day.
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shoegrl21
@shoegrl21 (10)
• United States
28 Apr 09
Wow. That is truly unheard of these days. Guys are usually all about "sowing" their wild oats before getting married. I mean, it's not a bad thing I guess. I would prefer my partner be more experienced than me. I've only had 3, so I'm not like a pro or anything. lol
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Margajoe
@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
28 Apr 09
I did not marry these men. hahaha! I cannot live with an inexperienced man, unless he is very intelligent. Experience and intelligence, is not easy to find in one man. hahaha! Take care, have a nice day.
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Ravenladyj
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
29 Apr 09
I've never "deflowered" a guy (or girl since I'm bi LOL) and in the case of a guy I'd never want to...It just doesnt appeal to me ya know....but for some reason I wouldnt have any trouble doing that with a woman..go fig LOL
lynn23
@lynn23 (31)
• United States
29 Apr 09
It is interestin how a virgin woman is seen a good thing but not a virgin man. I guess I would be honored to be a man's first and to be the first to give him that gift.
Manna02
@Manna02 (86)
• United States
30 Apr 09
My husband was my first. This caused some jealousy issues with his past. It used to really bother me that so-and-so was his first, and that he slept with other girls in between. But once I actually thought about it, I wouldn't have wanted a virgin. I don't think he would have realized how lucky he is now if he wouldn't have had all the bad experiences in his past.