Is there such a thing loving a person forever?
April 28, 2009 9:09pm CST
For me yes, Ive seen a lot of old couples, walking and holding each other hands. I think if it was really meant to be it can last forever. This is what I call true love. As long there is love even though there is always a constant changes there love will still be there and treasure and cherish each moments. Have a nice day to all of you!
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29 Apr 09
I believe in true love like you said older people walking hand in hand down the streets. I to believe they stay that way because of the times they met and the lack of communication devices cell phones, computers, tv all has had an impact on people thinking there is something better out there. Sometime the love of our life is standing right in front of us and we miss them because we running after the perfect person to love us. When the truth is we must first love ourselves and then the person who is meant to be will be there. We have all been spoiled in this world by technology and forget that we don't find love in the amount of money someone can spend on us but the amount of love we give to another person. I looked in all the wrong places for love when the one who truly loved me was standing right in front of me for years. after 5 years of fighting with each other we finally got our acts together and took it one day at a time and fell in love and have been together for 18 years.
5 May 09
Hi isawu2, Love moves in mysterious ways, God 18 years is 18 years, I hope it will just like me and my fiancee. I always imagine myself growing old with her, I hope it can last a life time just like yours. I feel good when I see couples who their relationship last for ever. Walking together, holding hands,and the love is always there. Well I know there will be changes, but each passing day they love each other gets stronger. I hope you don't mind if I ask some tips about it. Anyway have a nice day to you!God bless!
14 May 09
We just got married last year so talk about making sure it works. We spent a lot of time talking in the beginning. We also didn't give up our personal lives with our other friends and other interests. I liked the theater and going to the library. He was totally into fishing and liked classic cars. He bought a motorcycle the first winter we were together so the next spring we started riding. So many people think when they get into a relationship that its the be all and end all and its not. You have to maintain your other friendships and responsibilities to clubs and organizations you belong too. We share things about our lives for months. We always said we'd take it one day at a time and we still do because you can plan for the future but you can't plan the outcome. We had many hurdles to deal with in the beginning. I was going through a divorce and in college with a full course load. I was also in therapy for domestic violence which starting a new relationship scared me a little because what if I pick the same kind of man I always did. The following June I got pregnant which scared me I had never carried a baby to term and was still seeing my therapist which was good for me to vent those fears with. I also shared them with my boyfriend and we worked through them together. I moved to a two bedroom apartment just two weeks after she was born with his help of course he was there most of the time. He moved in a few months later. Well needless to say there were still plenty of hurdles since then. February 2007 we got engaged and May 2008 we got married. I believe today that anything worth having is worth putting work into and relationships with somebody you love and loves you back is worth the work.
29 Apr 09
YES and again... DEFINITELY YES!!! No questions asked. Though we might have some relationships before that did not last long as what we have expected and even dreamed to last forever but was cut short unexpectedly... IT only proves the point that... IT WASN'T THE REAL LOVE NOR THE RIGHT PERSON FOR US... but if we FIND it... then I am sure without a doubt that it will LAST if not forever at least for a LIFETIME... until one of the couple ceases to live. I bet... YOURS is one of the love we are talking about here. May God bless you, your fiance and your upcoming MATRIMONY! Dont forget to invite me. :)
5 May 09
Hi my friend Jhordie sorry for the late reply. Anyway I like your response, very, can't say anything. I really love her truly, it comes from my heart. I have got and found the real love that I was looking for.I treasure and appreciate her for what she is. It's like were honey mooning now, were having problems but were also fixing it already getting married soon bro. Starting to plan and doing it already saying I do. I don't give a damn even I have to sign a nuptial agreement and I will signed it in front of them. That is what delaying us my brother.It will be for better and for worst and she doesn't care just for us to go on with the wedding. I was planning for us to get our own place already for her to feel safe and sleep soundly. I know she's getting to be stress up, but she was telling me will push through, and will make it together.You take care always! Keep in touch!
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14 May 09
I think there is such a thing as loving someone forever. I think when you find that one true love you will love them always and never grow out of love with them. But then again I think you can never fall out of love with someone. I think true love is a kind of love that just grows everyday as you grow together and get to know them more.
16 May 09
Hi Jezebella, I agree with what you said. If it's really true love you love each other more each day.Especially when you love each other completely. No each passing day you don't miss each other and growing strong about your feelings. Anyway have a nice day to you!
29 Apr 09
I honestly believe there are couples like that in this world. I think their love is amazing and they must really love each other for real. True love are rare these days. That's perhaps we hardly have quality time to spend together and make quick decision on everything.
5 May 09
Hi prinzy, I always imagine myself growing old with my fiancee. Always near at her and never will I leave her. I think it's how you make the story ends, and how life you make for each other to strengthen the love for each other. Have a nice day to you! Sorry for the late reply!