Have you ever been uninvited to a family reunion?

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My husband and I had a huge falling out with his family four years ago over the dealth of his father. The family has not spoken to us since because my husband would not blindly sign away his inheritance to the ex-wife (common law wife). His parents got divorce when he was 9, got back together but never remarried and had 3 more kids. He Mother resented him because he was the only one of the kids who had the legal last name and she made his life miserable. When his father committed suicide the others didn't have to sign their rights over as they were not left anything. My husband said he wanted an accounting of the estate or he wouldn't sign. It was a huge fight. Four years later we got invited to a family reunion and the next day we got a hate mail from his sisters. The next day we were told that the family did not want us at the reunion as we would cause problems being at a reunion with the siblings and his mother present. Do you think this is right? He gave her the house and the bank accounts so what is the problem. He has tried so many times to make peace and they spit in his face. How do you mend a fence when only one side is willing to try?