is it hard to respond or start a topic on love when you are mad at your partner?

United States
April 29, 2009 12:56am CST
Love is one of my interests here on mylot, and tonight when i went into it to see all the recent discussions about it, i found i couldn't respond to any of them because i am just so mad at my boyfriend that i can't or don't want to even go there, do any of you have that happen to you?
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
29 Apr 09
Love is a good subject in discussions, here or in other places too, because all are interesed in this subject. Of course is hard to answer sometimes, but i think that peoples will answer in this topic when they are mad in love, when want to be in love, after a love story, and why not when they want just talk about love. Is good to share from our experience, and is good to talk, is a good therapy, to make problems go out. To talk about something,make us understand how we can avoid mistakes, how we can don t make mistakes again, and why not just to hear new love story.
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@chulasa (69)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
One of my interest in mylot is about LOVE. When I'm mad with my husband I couldn't really think properly. I just choose topics that talks about hating somebody or something that wouldn't include anything about husbands. In that way I won't regret anything that I might say. Hope things would be fine with your boyfriend.. cheers
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@hartnsoul (558)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
Love is also one of my interests here. I have been in the same position before where I am so angry I couldnt think straight. there have been times where my answers to questions where bias and that I was really pertaining to the object of my anger rather than to the topic although it has a similar topic. Nonetheless, i am able to share my thoughts and reading other comments gives me a different perspective on how to deal with my own situation. Mylot sure has a lot of open discussions where you can just vent out and learn from. :)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
love is also one of my interests here, and like you i'm just so mad at my boyfriend too (has been for quite some time now), but i still like to see what other mylotters have posted here. i like reading posts, i just couldn't seem to start a discussion about it though. i haven't been able to start any discussion on life, love, relationships, people... because i would just be reminded of someone i'm trying to forget for now at least. so i content myself to just responding.:)
@med889 (5941)
29 Apr 09
I have responded to several discussion even after being mad at my boyfriend, I have never let that madness affect me in everything I do apart being with him.
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@yonkie (440)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
I haven't tried responding any of the discussion that concerns love, relationship, or lover while being mad at my partner. But I think I can respond on my sanest condition when I am mad to my partner. MyLot.com has nothing to do with my being angry to my partner. If a discussion calls for a respond that is connected to it, I will be honest. I will tell the truth. In that sense I am still myself.
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• Canada
17 Sep 09
I can't say when we're mad at eachother, because anger does not last that long with us. We get the problem resolved right away. However, when I am worried about him, like when we were living apart (he worked in AZ, I lived in Canada) and I coudln't get a hold of him when he was supposed to get there, I had problems dealing with it, until I knew he was safe and accounted for, and yes, those were the times when I'd stay the heck away from the love discussions on MyLot or on any other site.