Which kids of yours do you love better?
By mermaidivy
@mermaidivy (15394)
United States
April 30, 2009 3:08pm CST
I have a sister who is 9 years old younger than me, when she was born, my mom took great care of her made me always wonder she loved her way way more than me. So I asked her "You like me more or sister?" Of course my mom said BOTH! Which I knew actually but I just felt jealous of my little sister that she all in sudden grab mommy's attention. But I'm sure she loves both of us very much! :-D
So frankly, do you really prefer one of your kids more than the rest? OPr you really love them evenly?
I'm not somebody's parent yet so I don't know. Can you share your experience with us? Thank you! ^_^
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4 responses
@dlr297 (5409)
• United States
1 May 09
I have 8 children and i love them all the same, you have to keep in mind that a younger child is always going to need more attention, That does not mean more love to one or the other. I am sure that your mother gave you the same attention that your sister is getting when you were that young.
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@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
1 May 09
hehe I know when I was getting bigger and I love my sister like my mo does! Thanks for responding! :-)
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@sayh123 (150)
• Philippines
1 May 09
well in that point, I prefer both of them to love and care of it.
In my situation I am a parent with a two kids which is boy and girl. And both of them they equally to protect and love and care for it. And no one of them to jealous each other because I'll try to do something that to makes satisfied for what I've been share and love of my kids.
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
1 May 09
That's good! Thanks for responding! :-)
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@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
4 May 09
Hello mermaidivy,
I am the youngest daughter in the family and it is a normal thing to be pampered more and being the center of attention. I am not sure whether my elder sisters envy of me or not - maybe when we're kids but not now anymore 
As for me, I only have a son right now. So, all my loves are just for him. I have to admit that I pamper him so much that my hubby warned me many times before. He doesn't want our son to be a mommy's boy.
As for me, I only have a son right now. So, all my loves are just for him. I have to admit that I pamper him so much that my hubby warned me many times before. He doesn't want our son to be a mommy's boy. @mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
4 May 09
Yea, I think we might get jealous when we were little but not so much when we get older :-p
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@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
30 Apr 09
My mother loves both my younger sister and I (Im 29 and she's 22), but since my parents divorced, my sister has been treated like a golden girl... Designer clothes, cell phones, cars... I wasn't even allowed to use the family vehicle to practice driving so that I could get my license.
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