Which is better a friendship or a Lover?

I think, i dont have to chose between the two. For me, I'll find a lover that is as the same time my bestfriend. That is why some says its better to know a person first through frienship, in that way, when love grows, both of you knows each other very well. If problem arises which results to a broke up, well both could stop and fall for a second, third thought...would I miss my lover and my bestfriend?

hey!! my boyfriend who was my good friend before and was a lot easier to get along with and lots of fun too before we decided to give it a more deeper meaning. A good friendship is better than a lover. With a lover, once you break up, there is nothing more to hold on even if there were lots of happy times. But with friend, a small misunderstanding can be easily patched up and you can have fun together again. I will definitely go for friendship than a lover.

I would rather have a friendship, what I hate is when you become friends with someone and if it ever turns into something beyond that theirs no turning back. So if something happens between you and you spit up you've lost your friend. What I need is to find me a g-y guy and then I wouldn't have to worry about us turning into lovers and we would be friends forever. lol

frienship as you say it is forever and as you know each other and develop the true love in you maybe you will become true lover forever but a lover only is bad if you have your own husband or wife.