Why do married woman doubled their size?
By mhethess
@mhethess (379)
Philippines
5 responses
@fifi2007 (91)
• Tunisia
2 May 09
In the begening of this year 2009 my husband warn me bcz i doubled my size:" if u will not watch yourself and loose some wight i will divorce you..." i'm seriouse he talk to me very harshely and i pass more then one month crying ...bcause of this situation i lost a very important wight but still not satisfied...i think that if any woman have this fair to loose her husband she will never let her body become like a bag of potatos...
@irene66 (1669)
• Philippines
3 May 09
helo fifi, I think your husband did not love you for who you are. He didn't consider your body make up. obesity is in the genes according to experts. I suggest you do some more exercise and do it religiously. Lessen and be careful what you put in your mouth. Sometimes one has to deprive herself of cakes, chocolates and other fattening foods. I think this helps.
@fifi2007 (91)
• Tunisia
4 May 09
Hi iren66, you know what frustrat me ? its the fact that my kindness and my big heart desapeared like that in one seconde when i 've quit my job and stay home to raise my baby my husband make me feel that i'm like an oger...every time i see some beautiful skiny girl in the street i'm so jealous bcz i'm worry she will be my rival some day its hell for me... u'r right my husband don't love me i agree even that will hurt me for the rest of my life.
@mhethess (379)
• Philippines
4 May 09
dear fifi don't you ever think that your husband doesn't love you anymore, i am sure that he still love you, he is just concerned about your health, and he is just challenging you, what do you need to do ask the Lord for guidance, accept his challenge do some program to loose weight and be responsible enough to take care of what you eat do some exercise and the best thing is always present yourself as the most beautiful and sexiest girl in the world for your husband. Nothing is impossible with God just trust Him. can we be friend?
@youless (112126)
• Guangzhou, China
7 May 09
I have heard that when a woman gets married, she won't be worried any more. Since that, she has no more pressure like the time when she was still single. So she will have a bigger size step by step. Besides, normally people will gain the weights when they are in the middle age.
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@mhethess (379)
• Philippines
7 May 09
I wished that married woman stopped gaining weights and enjoy the beauty of their youthfulness, but we cannot stop it but we can control it. By trying to have a Holistic healthy life. How to have that Holistic healthy life it defends on the person if she really love herself and her hhusband and kids.
@sataness (321)
•
2 May 09
Um if you seriously think the figure of each person in a relationship causes marital problems...then they shouldn't be together in the first place? Being married is not just being skinny... it's being happy and in love - coping together through the obstacles in life. It's not 'OMG SHE's/HE'S GAINED A FEW POUNDS I MUST DIVORCE HER/HIM' you don't need to let yourself go during marriage- but you shouldn't have to continually worry if your looks satisfy your partner. The point of marriage is knowing the person and loving them for their bad stuff anf their good stuff. You can be sexy and healthy no matter what size you are!
Happy mylotting
@mhethess (379)
• Philippines
4 May 09
Thank you for your comment, it relieves the worry of so many woman who gained weight. That is right we need to realized the true reason why do we choose to marry a person it is because we love him/her the wholeness of that person not just the outward appearance everything in her/him. yes being sexy is by how you carry your self and how you respect yourself. God Bless
@my_name_is_coco (4334)
• Philippines
2 May 09
I think some married women already "forgot" fixing themselves once they have kids.they already feel secure of themselves because they already have husbands.some stay-at-home moms are busy of household chores that they forget to devote time to relax and pamper themselves.
@mhethess (379)
• Philippines
4 May 09
yes some of them are like that what we need to do now, if we have friends like them have a heart let's give them advises and tell them that if they love their family love themselves also by taking care of themselves attending program and take a careful watch of their diet a constant walk will help. thanks
