Rihanna should be ashamed of herself

United States
May 2, 2009 10:59am CST
Rihanna should be ashamed of herself by taking that meatball-head Cris Brown back in her life. See many people around the world look up to her, and a lot of those people are young, impressionable girls. She owes it to these fans to walk away from her abuser. It would send a strong message that mental and physical abuse should not be tolerated under any circumstance. It is universally wrong. A relationship ceases being a realtionship when you cannot trust, and are not happy for the other person in your life. She is not just an average person, she has a lot going for her in her life as a performer and model. She is a status symbol, and she has responsibility to walk away. It is not like Chris has a lot to offer her. It is not like this is her last chance at love. She is a beautiful person and there are millions of guys who would treat her much better than Chris Brown. I think he is just using her right now so that she drops all charges against him. You see, when you are a celbebrity, you have to quit thinking oh there are feelings involved, and think about how perhaps some young woman who admires you is being beaten and menatlly broken down, and thinks to herself, oh if she can stay with her man and move on, I can too. Rihanna - show some responsibility.
2 responses
@Amberina (1541)
• United States
2 May 09
I don't find her at fault here it just goes to show you how strong abused women syndrome is. That's what she has and only she can pull herself out of it. She needs to deal with some issues before everyone starts judging her.
• Ireland
2 May 09
I dono, id have to respectfully disagree with you there. Having known wemon in this kind of situation. I think the issues need to be dealt with AFTER she leaves him... while there is ongoing abuse (mental physical whichever)she will never be able to overcome it. If she truely used her head instead of her heart she would be out of there in a flash, hense the "but i love him" syndrom, and she isnt a mindless drone to the feelings of the heart .. im sure she is perfectly capable of using her brain.
@Amberina (1541)
• United States
2 May 09
I should have made myself a little clearer. I understand what you mean and I do agree with you that she should work on it after she him leaves or if she does. I was thinking that maybe she could do that if he does like go to jail or something. With her lifestyle I don't know how often she is around him but I guess that if they are talking on the phone a lot and emailing then it's still a way for him to control her. She may have a personality that is attracted to men like him. I have known some women who just can't get away from someone who is controlling. Anyway I hope she gets help some time in her life to overcome this.
• Ireland
2 May 09
This is true. But it doesnt even seem to be that she is making any effort at all to leave ... i mean we arent there 24hours a day and dont really know what goes on behind closed doors but if any guy were to beat me that bad, I know I would be out of there in a second. With all of her wealth and resources it would be alot easier for her to escape then any normal joe public.
• Ireland
2 May 09
I have no sympathy for her what-so-ever. She is obviously one of these .. "but i love him " wemon who quite frankly make me sick