I can't understand what my colleague did !
By youetme
@youetme (351)
China
May 3, 2009 7:38pm CST
In my office there are three young ladies who are younger than me . I think we can get along very well each other ! But recently I found out a problem . One of them would like to discovery other's secrets and spread news around us . I know maybe in her eyes it is nothing but some funny news . In my view her doing is not good behavoir and virtue . Everyone has his own things that can't be spread .Keeping secrets is human's nature . I can't understand what she did . Sometimes I am so boring to hear her .
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4 responses
@angelbelle578 (1635)
• Philippines
4 May 09
Its really hard nowaday to find someone you trust fully specially in work. They may get along with you well but you can't really say that she/ he is being true to you. Sometimes its their way to get to know all your secrets or they would try to look what's negative in you. Maybe that lady is envy or jealous or the other one. That's why she did those things for make her feel better about her self. I have met many people who pretend to be good and friendly but with my observant eyes i could see their negative attitudes and their being untrue to others. We should not trust easily to anyone no matter how good they were to us.
@youetme (351)
• China
4 May 09
Yes you are quite right that lady is usually envy or jealous . I can feel that very well . My coworkers often praise me for something but I know that is not true . it is only apparent . But as for me I never do so . I would like to get along with people who are more excellent than me . I make my mind to learn more those without jealousy or envy . I am so tired of dealing with relationship that is so complexed . I like simple and harmony relationship .
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
6 Sep 11
Hi, youetme. That was very wrong of what your colleague has done. Spreading others secrets, is not news. This is personal information that is about someone else. It is not nice to tell another person's secrets. I am sure that she would not be too happy if someone had to do this to her too. I agree it is not good behavior and virtue. It is actually, bad behavior and immoral.
@jellymonty (2352)
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4 May 09
Stay clear away from her!! She obviously has no life of her own so she's trying to use you to entertain herself. Sadly office gossip is something you catn escape as there's always one in the office that starts up trouble.
Stay away from this girl and dont talk at all when she's around as every word you say she will keep and use it as a foundation of her gossip..
