Brokenhearted
By kellyt82
@kellyt82 (204)
United States
May 4, 2009 8:17am CST
I am brokenhearted. I am in pain but I think it may help if I share. I have been dating a wonderful man for a long time. I know he is a good man because I met him when I was pregnant with another mans baby. He did not care. I fell head over heels in love with him. I have never felt this was about someone in my life. He started making all kinds of plans with me. We have been looking into buying a house. He asked me to marry him. He made me so happy. He told me last night that he did not want to be with me anymore because he does not think we are right for each other. I feel like the whole world has come crashing down on my shoulders. I not only lost my boyfriend, I lost my best friend in the whole world. I have always been such a happy person even when times were tough. It has not even been a full day, and I already hate my life wihtout him in it. I still love this man, and I do not know how I am going to cope.
8 responses
@queenlove (495)
• United States
5 May 09
I am sorry that you are going through this. We have all been there at one time or another. Hopefully you will feel better soon. I have an article here for you to read about how to get over a breakup. I'm sorry I can't be of any further help, but maybe reading this article will give you some advice on how to fee better.
Good Luck.
~Love
http://ehow.com/how_4995535_over-breakup.html
@mommy101 (28)
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8 May 09
i believe that things always happen for a reason, maybe he didnt give himsefl enough time to actually think things through and scared himself off! i know it easy for me to say because im not in ur situation at the moment, but i have been there! u need to think about urself and ur baby forst and then work things out around u! keep ur head held high and thing will work out!
@kellyt82 (204)
• United States
8 May 09
I want to thank everyone for their comments. I actually did talk to him and we are back together! He broke up with me because he did not think that I loved him anymore. I do and I told hiom this. I am going to put in extra effort from now on to show him how much I care!
@HelloMickey (1655)
• Hong Kong
18 May 09
Hello kellyt82,
It seems that your bf is very good, I read your response to tell us you two are back together. My hubby and I split when we had been dated for three years, that hurt me so much, and the reason was the same as yours, he thought he was not the right one to make me happy and he thought I didn't love him.
I commented a response before I write this response, and after I have commented I knew you are back with your bf, hope you don't mind that I have said some bad men would do this trick to girls, and I don't mean to offend you or your bf. As my friends were hurt so much when their bad bf left them without a reason.
Have a nice day~
@shikaymaru (700)
• Malaysia
16 May 09
I feel sorry for you. I'm not going to say I know how you feel, cos I really don't..But i know it must be tough and it driving you crazy. All I know is time will slowly ease your pain away, it might takes couple of years to heal. Hope that you can find your strength in anyway. Be strong for your baby at least. God bless you my friend!
@clgwilliams (38)
• United States
16 May 09
I am so sorry to hear about what happened. It is a part of life.. we love and we get heartbroken. I would like to know the reason why he all of a sudden decided you two weren't meant to be together after putting time and energy into starting to build a life with you.
@imajerseygirl (433)
• United States
16 May 09
I don't really have any wise advice to give, besides I'm sorry to hear you going through what you are going through. It's painful, but as people have told me, hold your head high and focus on you. If its meant to be he'll be back, otherwise there is something greater out there for you.
@genevakat17 (117)
• United States
8 May 09
I had the same thing happen, right out of no where he just said I am not interested in being with you anymore... we were okay, never really talked about not being together, one minute he loved me the next he didnt..... because... he quickly found someone else... Do you think your man could have done that? Do not blame yourself.... He is missing out on someone great, and he isnt meant to be with you, you will find better sweety:) Keep your head up
@jugsjugs (12967)
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5 May 09
I felt that when i was younger about someone.In the end it made me very ill,so i plucked up the courage to face the break up head on as i was not given a reason to why we split either.Lets say i wasnt happy to find out that he had been seeing a best friend of mine and she had told him that he had to leave me for her,knowing that i knew he would do the same to her that he had done to me.Go and have a chat and just ask why he thinks it will not work with you two and tell him no matter what he says you will then be able to start your life on your own knowing rather than not knowing why you split.
