Daydreamer2: What can you do to make relationship grow and stay long forever?

Philippines
May 5, 2009 12:01am CST
I don't know how to handle relationship, but i always advice people to do this and that! Is there anything i can do to make relationship better? because i'm finding it hard to do such things i only read quotes that are related to love but i still don't get it please help me!
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6 responses
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
7 May 09
I love your avatar very much, it is like a real hurt which is keep on pumping until life is there in us. As I have never been in relationship, I can't answer your question with real life experiences but what every life I have had, I can say that relationships are priceless and one should do anything to have that with you and to make it stay forever. The first thing is required to be patient and have faith in your partner. Second thing is don't be over possessive. Possessiveness is the biggest enemy of relationship, after all every one wants to have space!
@Opal26 (17686)
• United States
5 May 09
Hey Daydreamer! First of all stop reading quotes! The best way to make a relationship grow is to just go with the flow! Just let it grow naturally! There are no maps, no quotes, not suggestions or anything else that will really help you in a relationship! Every relationship is different! The best thing that you can do for your relationship is to just go with your gut feelings! It is ok to ask for advice on a specific matter now and then, but basically you need to work things out according to your own specific needs! Everyones needs are different so you just can't go by what someone else tells you! Try to work things out on your own according to what is going on between the two people involved! It is ok to ask for opinions now and then, but try to work things out on your own, between the two of you!
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
5 May 09
I think to last a relationship is don't treat her only a gf but a best friend. Cause sometimes it's too hard to open up when you only treat her as a gf. Always learn new things together, and not pulling each other down. Respect each other opinion, and trust each other near or far, patience and efforts too it also counts a lot in a relationship and a open communication. Being honest with what you feel. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
5 May 09
I Have a lot of advices too for others, sometimes is harder to make something for yourself. In my opinion the most important thing what can make a relation to grow up is COMUNICATION. Who don t comunicate don t have a relation. And of course carring, to care about your lover is what can make a relation grow up. Any kind of relation need many things to stay alive and grow up. understanding, trust, faithfulll, love.
@cindyhxf (1447)
• China
5 May 09
I had bad experience of relationship before.after divorced i thought a lot.why my marriage life was so short,did i really find wrong man or i could do better?but when some problems happened to us ,we didn't try to talk more or communicate with each other more.he had his reason to judge me so did i .i think it was bad for relationship.people just closed themselves but didn't do much effort to save anything.they just cared face's problems or felt tired easy.relationship will die soon without good communication.
@donsky14 (5961)
• Philippines
5 May 09
Trust is really important in a relationship...its the foundation. Also, you should always make your love one feel that s/he is important to you.