Has your ex BF ever wanted to make his fiance speak to you!!!

India
May 5, 2009 4:51am CST
The most outrageous thing happened to me today. My ex bf called and said his so-called fiance wanted to speak to me.. I mean, is he out of his mind or something.. Where did he even get that idea.. Had to speak to her anyway.. She asked me such strange questions.. Is he trustworthy, what was your relation, why did you guys break up, did you love him!!! How does all this matter when I'm happily married and it's been so many years.. I hope she's not going to call all the women he's been with to take her decision..
5 responses
• United States
13 May 09
That is really kinda funny! LOL Who really makes their decision based on an ex? I have not had that kind of experience. But I actually have talked to my husbands first love, that was kinda weird for me. They had a child they gave up for adoption 24 years ago and a couple years ago the child found both of them. Anyway, I did have to have conversations with all of them. It was weird cause she kept talking about my husband like she knew him and saying all this stuff about what kind of person he was. He was 40 then and she had not seen him since he was 18 so she really did not know what kind of person he was, just what she remembered about him as a teen. But she totally remembered EVERYTHING which made me feel like she was a bit obsessed. LOL I got over that though pretty quick.
• India
19 May 09
My God, I can't believe something like that happened with you.. Feel so bad for you.. U must be very brave to have dealt with all that. Hats off to u!!
• Lithuania
16 May 09
it is really strange.. i do not know any person like she.. i think she scare something and trying to find something why she can go away... she do not trust him and trying to find something what will make her choise which way to go...
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
5 May 09
If you've been split up for so long then why she would choose you is kinda odd BUT maybe out of all his ex's your the least threatening one and thats why she picked you (maybe by his suggestion)....also since you ARE happily married maybe she figures you are not a threat for starters and secondly will be honest with her or something...LOL who knows why some ppl do what htey do ya know... I hope she's not going to call all the women he's been with to take her decision LOL yea no doubt...If she is planning on doing that (and even just calling you) I'd seriously wonder if this chick really wants to marry your ex at all ya know..
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
5 May 09
wow, i can't believe it. i don't think such a person can do that? i mean why does she need you opinionor to know the past relationship you had with his boyfriend or so called-fiancee. if she wented to know something, she can ask the guy and not you. to the guy, isn't he ashamed that you might think his fiancee needs to talk to you first before saying yes to him? wow, it is just kinda wierd.
• United States
6 May 09
Wow I have never heard of someone doing that! It sounds to me like one of two things are going on! Either there are some major trust issues between them. I mean after years of not being together and you happily married and get a strange call like that. Sounds to me like she really doesn't want to marry him and is looking for something. It could also be that he still thinks about you or something and she is just a friend to help him out in finding out if you still think about him or something. Either way its strange!!!!!!! Sounds to me like they both have some growing up to do and that you were very smart to get away from him years ago. Something that is lingering in my mind tho If she was just calling to see if he was trustworthy and etc. then why would she need to know if you loved him? That really just doesn't make sense at all to me!!