What will you do if you found your spouse cheat on you?
By caesarin
@caesarin (1089)
Indonesia
May 5, 2009 7:37am CST
I won't talked to him now. I'll check myself. What did I do wrong?
Though I believe when someone get into an affair, it must be very hard for him or her to confess his or her mistakes or having any intention to make everything right from the beginning whatever it takes.
Why? Because he or she chose to cheat at the first place instead talking about the problems. But there could be some specific case where someone tend not to discuss, that they are not an open person.
Well, I really don't know what to do if so.
I hope it should not happen to me.
Very scary.
I can't imagine being treated like that. I love my husband and family so much.
What will you do?
3 responses
@msmamaof3 (244)
• United States
5 May 09
I'd cry for an eternity. I've been w/ my husband for 13 years. I can't imagine life w/out him so truly I'm not sure I could JUST END IT.
@caesarin (1089)
• Indonesia
6 May 09
I thought I'm going to cry for an eternity too. But I don't want to be weak.
I'm not letting anyone to make my life miserable.
I try to put this on my mind, things happen to everyone.
Good things and bad things but everything is depending on the subject itself.
It's your choice if you let bad things make your life miserable.
It's all about our mind.
Back to the subject of discussion.
I'm married for almost 4 years and many things had happened in our relationship.
Most of things make me sad but I need to stay cool because I have 2 children.
Besides, I love my husband but his ego made me him but still I love him.
This makes me very emotional. I always tried to cope with my emotion so that it won't create bad atmosphere among us.
But I just couldn't help it.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
5 May 09
I would end things. I could never trust someone who cheated on me and I couldn't imagine staying with someone that I couldn't trust. But at the same time it would depend on the person. I might forgive the man I am dating right now. I think he would never cheat on me, but if he did I might try to work things out. I would wonder why he cheated and if he would cheat on me again.
@caesarin (1089)
• Indonesia
6 May 09
I used to be very patient and calm and forgiving.
I'm not the same person I was. There are too much pressure I can't take that I'm losing the way I was.
But in this case, I'll try to be more patient. At least I'll check myself what mistakes did I make so that he chose his path to cheat on me.
@angemac23 (2003)
• Canada
5 May 09
If I found out my spouse was cheating on mew, I would end our relationship right than and there and never take him back!
