How do you help a friend when your going through the same problem?

United States
May 5, 2009 8:15pm CST
Im in the process of a divorce and its not easy to deal with my own problems. With that being said my best friend seems unhappy in her relationship. Lately all she can tell me is that she is catching him in lies. Personally I believe that if you dont have trust then you dont have anything. I want to be there for her but its hard to deal with my own problems. Hopefully I can be the friend she needs during this difficult time with her fiance. Any advice on how much help I should give?
2 responses
@smileonstar (4012)
• United States
6 May 09
HI, It is hard to talk about divorce and if you want to help your friend then you do the best you can. Well, she is not married yet so she has a lot of time to get to know her fiance. This is the right time for both of them to get to know each other. Lying is a big problem in relationship and each one of them need to talk about it and can't hid about anything. I hope everything will be fine.
@rocketsky (1013)
• China
6 May 09
there is no such a thing called ten perfect in one's life getting rid of the feeling of being sad ,things will become better