Do you remember your first love?

@med889 (5952)
May 6, 2009 12:46am CST
What about your first love do you still remember him/her?
11 responses
@shibham (17019)
• India
26 May 09
hai med, how are u? your discussion is similar to one of mine,. anyway, i can't forget my first love of 1997. now she is a complete housewife with kids and i am still unmarried. ha ha ha .............but not for her. now i am happy with my new love. she is a kind hearted and reliable girl for me.thanks and take care.
@med889 (5952)
26 May 09
Hello shibham,Im fine thank you very much dear,so your first love is already married? But I am happy as you are someone to move ahead in life which I appreciate a lot, keeps going dear..
• Malaysia
26 May 09
well, maybe yes and maybe not. my opinion is, your first love is not necessary or automatically be your 1st love. this is because, sometime, people getting up to 4th or 5th time until they found their first love..get me?anyway, for myself, i was in love 3 times until for the 4th time, i knew, i have found my 1st love with her...but unfortunately, i just cant be with my 1st love because of the situation that we are in now...i'm not talking about cheating...this is a matter of fact, about your 1st love feeling...sometime you gets it, sometime you wont...
@med889 (5952)
26 May 09
I understand fully what you want to say and I think you are right to some extend too. I have seen many guys but then I was finally in love with someone who is my first love so I think this is all a matter of knowing exactly if it is your first love or just infatuation.
@tjades (3591)
• Jamaica
25 May 09
I remember my first love for his charm, tenderness and witty attitude. He is a very fun and considerate person. I can never forget him for one other thing too... His love for his children. After we parted and he got married his wife wanted little to do with their baby boy. He practically raised the child himself until age 3 when the mother snatched him away one day when he was not at home. That was a bitter period in his life. He has two boys now and loves them dearly. If the mothers ever once falter he would be there in a heartbeat for his boys. That I really admire about him.
@med889 (5952)
26 May 09
He is indeed a very good father then , I also admire people who never falters in their duty too as your first love , he is so responsible as I can see and this is very good.
• Guam
8 May 09
Yes, I do. We no longer talk anymore though.. lost contact through the years. He met up with a new set of friends & everything. We dated for a while in high school.. I was 16 at the time we started dating.
@med889 (5952)
26 May 09
I still talk to my first love and we are very good friends now, we even have lunch sometimes and when we talk of the past, we laugh and we take it very lightly so i think if we were always taking everything seriously then life would be sour.
1 person likes this
@SuzyLong (775)
7 May 09
I remember emough that I never want to see him again for fear of what I'd do to him.
@med889 (5952)
26 May 09
Really? Maybe he was the nightmare of your past then! All the best dear.
1 person likes this
@tammytwo (4300)
• United States
6 May 09
Yes, I do remember him well. In fact we are still friends and see each other every once in a while. We were only about 13 or 14 when we 'went together'. He really is a nice guy but I believe life worked out for the best and he has a lovely wife and I am married to the man whom I dated after him.
@med889 (5952)
26 May 09
Yeah this is indeed nice to be able to still be friends with each other, I am also like you, I have been with someone in the past,today he is married and we are very good friend even his wife do understand this and I am very glad about it.
@srikool (936)
• India
6 May 09
im very lucky one..my first and the lost love both are same..i gonna marry my first lover..gid is great for me..i cant forgot this love in my life..i dont have the chance for the second love..evne i get it ai wont forgot my first..i think noone can foirgot this..first love is great always..this is my opinion..have a happy mylotting
@med889 (5952)
26 May 09
This is indeed cool to have someone you have always love all your life, I am happy for you srikool ;-)
• United States
6 May 09
My first love was a boy that was the son of my dad's friends when I was around 10 or so in New Mexico. I used to get so excited when they'd come over to swim. I remember going to the opera with him and his family. He was so funny! I wonder what ever happened to him...
@med889 (5952)
26 May 09
This is cool but did you never ask anyone about his whereabouts or did you never tried to reach him through any means? Anyways I think when you were 10 years old you must be thinking you were young enough to induldge in serious relationship.
@cindyhxf (1447)
• China
6 May 09
yes,i remember him .he is my first man in my life.we were so young at that time.so we didn't know how to handle some problems between us.just let our love die by itself and without much pity.
@med889 (5952)
26 May 09
Hello cindyyhxf, thank you for the response, my boyfriend is the first man in my life and I am also happy for that as I think it is such a wonderful moment when being together. So when you were both willing the love then why did you let it die without solving it? Anyways I am happy you commented.
@DanBen (346)
• India
6 May 09
My first love was a girl I knew back in Kindergarten. She was so pretty that I actually gave her a kiss on the cheek one day. Strangely she didn't even react to my gesture. But it was worth it.
@med889 (5952)
26 May 09
Hello DanBen, this is a love started very early I suppose ;-) I am also sure the kiss was worthwhile as she was very pretty too.
• India
26 May 09
I don't remember my first love...cause in my case its very difficult. I get attracted too easily. Any girl looking good ...talkig good and i am ....ooo i love this girl. So i don't remember who was the first girl for whom this expression came....