i hate what he does but still im with him and cant leave him!

when we love a person, we do really want to accept his ways, ( although i know we cant accept all of them). Maybe you have to talk with ur partner about this. You tell him what you dont like. You tell him what you like the most about him. Its all about understanding each other. You cant changed a person in a way that you want perfectly. Rule is, dont change your partner. If he respect you, he will realize that some of his ways are not good. be patient about it, talk to him. i have a boyfriend and he admits that he is not organized person, i accepted it, but because we are more than 4 years now, i noticed some changes, he is a bit organized now than before. See, this is cool. Happy mylotting and smile always!

You have to look out for yourself, because it sounds like no one else is. A partnership should be equal, but most times it is not. Believe me when I say you probably won't ever change him unless he wants to change. You either accept your partner as they are or make the decision to leave. Respect, communication, and honesty are the 3 most important things I believe are needed in a successful relationship.