i want to tell my lovers bad things to him..i dunno how it is possible..???help

Simple, don't hesitate...say straight to him. I believe others know more about us than we do. I won't mind anyone saying to me what i have done wrong. But, they should be telling that in private, not in public in front of others. I do get angry when someone criticizes me in front of people.

yeah you're right, you are the only person that must tell him the things which is bad for him. it's just okay to tell it to him but be sure to tell in good mood, and in a nice way that it would'nt take it as negative comments, this way he would feel that he cares for you. explain why you tell it to him because of course you care and you don't want anything bad that will happen to him. are you from india? i like the beauty of indian ladies.

you just have to make a communication lines open with him. clear to him you only wanted to let him know about your thoughts and they simply mean nothing more than helping you sort out misunderstandings with him.

Hi Srikool, Like you say, you don't want to lose him. But if you guys gonna live with each other for a long time,you got to be honest to each other. All the sweet words only works on the beginning, when you get to know each other better and better, all the bad things inside you and him will shows up. So, why don't you tell him straight how you feel about the things he did. Remember to have a good smile on your face, so that he will freak out. Be nice and soft, he will accept it. And this step will make a good profit in the future, coz you don't need to hide your feeling any more, and so does him. Go do it, and good luck, girl!